What Reddit is saying about aitah
4,409 public posts and comments mentioned aitah in the last 30 days, most of them in r/aitah. Counts from the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.
4,409mentions in the last 30 days (2,517 posts, 1,892 comments)
1,343+26%in the last 7 days, change on the 7 days before
225in the last 24 hours
r/aitahtop community, 1,309 mentions
The highest scoring of the newest 50 posts that match, each with the start of the post and its top reply. The full list, every comment and anything older need a key.
- AITAH for calling my MIL a bitch and finally sticking up for myself?
Hello all, before you judge me I finally spoke up and said something to my MIL who is an awful person. I have been with my husband for 13 years and in 13 years I have bit my tongue and shut my...
Top reply (1 points): ^^^^AUTOMOD Thanks for posting! READ THIS COMMENT - MAKE SURE TO CHECK ALL YOUR DMS. This comment is a copy of your post so readers can see the original...
r/AmItheAsshole1 points1 comment33 min ago
- AITAH of a Friend for not responding to dry text messages.
I have to start off by saying that I absolutely love meeting new people!! It’s my favourite thing in the whole entire world, It gives me so much joy and brightens my day! I think I would consider...
r/AmItheAsshole1 points1 comment46 min ago
- AITAH for being angry at my husband for crying over his dead mother?
.My (45f) husband (m45) lost his mother ten years ago. Since his mother passed, he has given up on life. He started smoking again, he hasn’t held a steady job, he’s struggled with depression… he...
Top reply (1 points): ^^^^AUTOMOD Thanks for posting! READ THIS COMMENT - DO NOT SKIM. This comment is a copy of your post so readers can see the original text if your post is...
r/AITA_Relationships1 points1 comment2 h ago
- AITAH for blowing up at my pregnant sister at my anti-baby shower?
In June, I (25FtM) got my tubes tied, and wanted to have an event where I could be the center of attention. I felt my HS graduation was overshadowed by my oldest sister (Bea, 27F) marriageand...
Top reply (29 points): You could have been celebrating buying dish soap, it doesn’t matter what you celebrate. This was YOUR PARTY, not hers
r/AITH1 points1 comment3 h ago
- AITAH for paying for the ACT
I 17F recently made my mom mad for paying for the ACT test. I told her for months that I planned to take the act test multiple times this year since it’s my senior year of high school. I recently...
Top reply (25 points): Don’t let your mother determine your future!
r/AITH1 points1 comment3 h ago
- AITAH for not wanting to pay my neighbors light bill
I live in the guest house on my parents property. I pay rent to my dad and pay my own electric bill. My parents treat me as a tenant and don’t do me any special favors. In fact, my home is due for...
Top reply (3 points): Turn off the breaker to the outside switch
r/AmItheAsshole1 points1 comment3 h ago
- AITAH for eloping and not communicating with family for 9 months?
I (24F) and my husband (26M) eloped in Feb. He's my first bf and we've been together for 4 years. We decided to elope and hold the wedding later. We planned to keep it secret and tell our families...
Top reply (7 points): NTA… Seems to me you did the right thing.
r/AmItheAsshole1 points1 comment3 h ago
- AITAH for refusing to apologize
For context, I am an Arab Christian and my friend who is involved in this story is white and Christian. We discuss politics from time to time but never heavily and never in a way where it impacted...
Top reply (17 points): She is being racist. A core tenant of racism is the insert minority here that they know is “one of the good ones” and not like those other people. Do not...
r/AITH1 points1 comment4 h ago
- AITA 30 married with toddler and living with my parents to save money for house
Am I the asshole? I (30f) and my husband (29m) have a toddler (3) we currently live in a tri level house with my parents (both in their 50s). We have the bottom floor, kitchen and their dining...
r/AmItheAsshole1 points1 comment4 h ago
- AITAH for not reaching out to them for giving me silent treatment?
For context I (28F) started working on a new unit about a year ago where I made a big group of friends. One of which I'll call Mary (32F). Mary has suffered infertility and family issues for...
r/AITA_Relationships1 points1 comment4 h ago
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