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What r/AITAH is talking about this week

r/AITAH has 7,595,617 members and 48 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 74.6 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

7,595,617members
48posts in the last 24 hours, newest 13 min ago
74.6comments an hour right now, newest 4 h ago
4,702points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/AITAH this week

wanting25friend20wibtah19boyfriend17mom15brother14telling12sister9getting8refusing7husband7family7

Top threads this week

  1. AITAH for telling my mom that my dad’s wife worked at the facility where she was having a medical procedure?

    My parents are separated, and my dad is remarried. My mom and his wife have had some tension in the past. Recently, my mom had a colonoscopy scheduled after an abnormal medical result. She’d been...

    4,702 points903 comments2 d ago
  2. AITAH for saying I can't get pregnant?

    I 36F have a medical condition for which I have medication. With this medication I am not allowed to become pregnant. I tried to go off medication (it has a 5-6 month period for being completely...

    3,608 points984 comments2 d ago
  3. AITAH for correcting my 5-year-old when she mimicked her older cousin’s tantrum?

    My daughter (5) has a cousin (11) who frequently struggles with emotional regulation, especially when losing games. This has happened many times, and I’ve usually handled it by removing my...

    2,298 points261 comments6 d ago
  4. Spent 7 hours with a woman, had sex, and left shortly after. AITAH?

    So I've (29 M) been seeing this woman (39 F) for a couple months now and things have been great. Our chemistry is amazing physically and emotionally. I spent almost my entire day there yesterday...

    2,192 points769 comments7 d ago
  5. AITAH for losing it at my mom's birthday dinner and refusing to keep paying for her care while my brother owes her (and me) money?

    &x200B; This is long and I'm typing it on my phone in my car so forgive the typos. I have an older brother, D, we are both in our forties. Dad died six years ago due to a heart attack. Mom was...

    1,767 points240 comments5 d ago
  6. AITAH for taking over a gym machine from a girl who was hogging three machines at once?

    So I went to the gym today and was about to use a machine for RDLs. I started reaching for a 45 lb plate to unload it when this girl came out of nowhere telling me she was using it. I was confused...

    1,478 points151 comments5 d ago
  7. AITAH for deliberately pretending to forget my Dad’s birthday & leaving him to spend it alone (update two years on)

    https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/YcgKgQSULR No idea if anyone cares but it’s two years since my post, and people had strong thoughts so I thought I would give you an update! Dad’s had a good year....

    1,315 points29 comments5 d ago
  8. AITAH for telling my bigoted older brother that he behaves like a "future rapist" after he wouldn't stop insulting our gay younger brother?

    I (18F) am caught in a horrible situation with my older brother, let’s call him “Leo" (21M). For context, Leo is deeply trapped in alt-right, anti-everyone internet echo chambers. He is incredibly...

    1,263 points401 comments2 d ago
  9. AITAH for holding my baby

    Title pretty much sums it up. I feel kinda guilty because I don’t mean to hurt anyone’s feelings but you ever just keep telling someone no over and over again while they keep asking and it pushes...

    1,241 points204 comments3 d ago
  10. AITAH For Not Going Into The ER With My Husband

    My father in law likely had a heart attack at a restaurant. My husband, myself, my MIL, and FIL all drove to the hospital as the ambulance was delayed. When we arrived at the emergency department,...

    1,110 points339 comments5 d ago

Newest posts

  1. Dispute over spare room during house move. AITAH
    1 points0 comments13 min ago
  2. AITAH for leaving my mom behind?
    1 points0 comments19 min ago
  3. AITAH for refusing to replace my daughter's shoes after my dog destroys them?
    71 points174 comments26 min ago
  4. AITAH for refusing to babysit my aunts’ children?
    1 points0 comments2 h ago
  5. AITAH or WIBTAH for asking/demanding my(30f) father(58m) for my share of the restaurant/business that we sold a month ago.
    47 points77 comments2 h ago
  6. AITAH if i tell my husband im getting a dog with or without him?
    1 points0 comments3 h ago
  7. AITAH? Banned from a snake group
    1 points0 comments3 h ago
  8. AITAH for blocking both my friend and his sister after i basically got beated up over an 1 euro coin (prank gone wrong)?
    1 points22 comments4 h ago
  9. AITAH for having a hard time with unexpected house changes
    1 points0 comments4 h ago
  10. AITAH for not wanting my flatmate’s boyfriend staying alone in our shared flat?
    1 points0 comments4 h ago
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