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What r/AmItheAsshole is talking about this week

r/AmItheAsshole has 24,680,108 members and more than 100 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 74.4 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

24,680,108members
100+posts in the last 24 hours, newest just now
74.4comments an hour right now, newest 4 h ago
13,162points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/AmItheAsshole this week

aita143wanting21friend21sister20wibta20aitah16refusing16telling15brother12asking10wedding10friends9

Top threads this week

  1. AITAH FOR REFUSING THAT THE KIDS OF FRIENDS BUILD MY NEW LEGO SET?

    The kids were at my place with their parents for a dinner party... Actually, only the parents and other friends were invited, no children. I myself do not have kids so I might not understand the...

    13,162 points1,558 comments7 d ago
  2. AITA? I asked my son if he was raising his daughter or just keeping her alive.

    I asked my 2 year old granddaughter not to throw her bike on the couch or at me. I told her (quite gently) that floor toys stay on the floor and she couldn't play with it if she threw it. My son...

    9,019 points707 comments5 d ago
  3. AITA for hiring someone to do a task my boyfriend took a year to do?

    I asked my boyfriend (40M) almost a year ago to install a large shelf in my bedroom (we don't live together and see each other about 2-3x/week). After asking multiple times sporadically to remind...

    6,347 points501 comments3 d ago
  4. AITA for refusing to bail out my kid & her husband from the financial crisis he got them into?

    My daughter is married to “Sam” and they have two young children together. Sam fucked up and got himself into big trouble at work. Suspension, mandatory rehab and therapy, check ins, and a bunch...

    5,378 points1,441 comments6 d ago
  5. AITA for not accommodating my sisters quad-couple during the holidays?

    My husband and I (25) purchased a home this year, and we are very excited about having the opportunity to host family gatherings. While our house isn’t huge, it has enough space to comfortably...

    4,690 points579 comments4 d ago
  6. AITA for not letting my new upstairs neighbors use our yard and basement??

    My finance and I (30M+F) live in a townhouse that has been converted to apartments. We live on the first floor, and have been living here for six years now. Since we’re on the first floor we have...

    4,391 points418 comments6 d ago
  7. AITAH for telling my parents they are the reason my sister is the way she is?

    I 22 female have a little sister 15 female. I have a 33 year old older sibling but this is about the younger one. Growing up our life was pretty normal. Except for the issue with how we were...

    4,329 points167 comments4 d ago
  8. AITA for wanting to attend my nieces funeral?

    Sounds wild if I put it like this, but that's what it boils down to. So, my sister had a baby, and we would fight a lot about her putting blankets etc in the crib, because it's unsafe sleep. She...

    3,717 points551 comments7 d ago
  9. AITA for finally standing up to my BIL after he told me to stop eating his food

    My(34) husband(31) and I have a toddler who absolutely loves going to his grandparent's place every single weekend. We oblige and if we don't go, we usually get a call from one of them asking...

    3,441 points195 comments6 d ago
  10. WIBTA if I report a coworkers continued harassment and potentially cost her a 45k severance?

    I (28f) have a coworker (60s f) I will call Sue, to keep it simple. I have been at my company for less than a year and Sue has been there for nearly 27. A little context here. I was warned from...

    3,219 points264 comments6 d ago

Newest posts

  1. AITA For Being Parasocial?
    1 points0 commentsjust now
  2. WIBTA for sending food to a thanksgiving that I’m not welcome at?
    1 points1 comment4 min ago
  3. WIBTA: Would I be the asshole for sending food to a thanksgiving gathering that I’m not welcome at?
    1 points1 comment10 min ago
  4. AITAH for expecting my tenant to ask before bringing spiders and insects into my apartment?
    1 points1 comment15 min ago
  5. AITA for snapping at my chronically complaining cousin when her venting ruined our gaming routine?
    1 points1 comment16 min ago
  6. AITA for being pushy with unemployed friend
    1 points1 comment17 min ago
  7. AITA for complaining to my boss about my coordinator?
    1 points1 comment22 min ago
  8. AITA for delaying mailing my ex-girlfriend's belongings
    1 points1 comment28 min ago
  9. AITA for pushing my mate to leave a club so our group could stay together?
    1 points1 comment29 min ago
  10. AITA I visited a stripclub for the first time in another country
    1 points1 comment31 min ago
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