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What r/AITA_Relationships is talking about this week

r/AITA_Relationships has 78,791 members and 80 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 18.5 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

78,791members
80posts in the last 24 hours, newest 13 min ago
18.5comments an hour right now, newest 1 h ago
253points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/AITA_Relationships this week

boyfriend36wanting26friend19girlfriend15friends14aitah14telling13partner12husband10wibta10upset9refusing8

Top threads this week

  1. AITA for telling my husband in front of all our friends that if he wanted me to get a boob job then he would have to get a p3nile enlargement

    Hi, everyone, this is a burner account, so it wouldn't have ties to my personal account, but I feel like I'm not the bad person in this situation, and I want others' opinions before I decide to...

    253 points95 comments2 d ago
  2. AITA for refusing to turn my spare room into a permanent bedroom for my boyfriend’s mom?

    I own this small apartment by myself. I bought it before I met my boyfriend, using my savings and family help. It’s my safe space, and I only have one spare room. My boyfriend’s mom is having...

    201 points82 comments5 d ago
  3. AITA for cock blocking my friend who is soon to be a dad.

    My group of friends (M's 25-27) were out at the bar last night and we were all having a good time. Another group of both males and females that were a little older than us started talking to us...

    159 points44 comments3 d ago
  4. AITA for cutting off my mother after she eloped with my fiancés father.

    I know this sound ridiculous but I promise this is the truth, and I’m more writing this for validation rather than for actual advice. I(24f) was supposed to be getting married to my fiancé(26m) in...

    131 points91 comments3 d ago
  5. AITA for putting my foot down and refusing to let my SIL visit our house after my husband failed to address her disrespect?

    &x200B; I’m looking for some objective perspective here. My (F54) in-laws are overall amazing, and I genuinely feel blessed to have them in my life. Except for one sister-in-law. She has been...

    100 points22 comments3 d ago
  6. AITA for telling my ex’s family the truth

    My (24F) ex husband (25M) whom I was married to for 4.5 years left me out of the blue back in April. One morning, I had a weird gut feeling to check his computer. And when I did, I found a lease...

    62 points9 comments3 d ago
  7. AITA for being mad my partner chose WOW forever over my birthday

    I honestly am feeling insane and don’t know what to do. My fiancé (35M) and I (31F) have been together for 4 years, engaged for 1 year. He’s always been very into gaming and that’s something that...

    51 points46 comments5 d ago
  8. AITA for wanting to divorce my wife after 9 years because I feel like I'm carrying our entire family on my back?

    I (25M) have been with my wife (25F) for 9 years. We have two kids together, a daughter (5F) and a son (1M). Our relationship has never been perfect, but despite everything we've been through, I...

    49 points61 comments5 d ago
  9. AITA for cutting contact with my BIL after years of supporting him in prison, paying a costly parole attorney, and sponsoring his reentry when he violated boundaries and involved our daughter?

    My husband (37M) and I (36F) have a 4-year-old daughter. Years ago, while living in the Cincinnati area, we found a letter from my husband’s twin brother, incarcerated in Texas. It was a...

    37 points19 comments4 d ago
  10. AITA for not wanting to be intimate with my husband after what I found on his phone

    Hey!! I feel really bad talking about it here but I don't want to talk to my friends because I don't want to crowd them with stories, but I really need to talk about it. So me (25F) and my husband...

    36 points39 comments5 d ago

Newest posts

  1. AITA for texting a guy I kissed while drunk, who used to be friends with my boyfriend?
    1 points1 comment13 min ago
  2. WIBTA for ending a long relationship over family
    1 points0 comments14 min ago
  3. AITA for not wanting to cut off a friend because my fwb says he ‘doesn’t like his vibe’?
    1 points1 comment19 min ago
  4. AITA for telling my bf I feel like a roommate, not his gf in his home?
    1 points0 comments22 min ago
  5. AITA for wanting my brother and sister in law to stop sending birthday gifts to my children?
    1 points1 comment23 min ago
  6. WIBTA for breaking up with my girlfriend over her smoking?
    1 points1 comment54 min ago
  7. AITA for saying I feel used and that my ex did it on purpose?
    1 points1 comment58 min ago
  8. AITA for accidentally S/Aing my boyfriend?
    1 points1 comment1 h ago
  9. AITA for not asking for consent?
    1 points0 comments1 h ago
  10. AITA Mental Load Vs Communication
    1 points1 comment2 h ago
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