- Sorry fellas, women no longer settle for the beta at 30. In 2026 they chase the “attractive men” until their 40’s
The outdated revenge fantasy that women hit 30 and suddenly settle for the first nice guy provider they can find is incredibly inaccurate now. I live in the UK and the past couple of years have...
169 points520 comments3 d ago
- Some men need to realise that women are also adults with jobs
This common saying that "women go out and party through their 20s only to settle for the stable provider in their 30s" has one big flaw. Obviously, the biggest flaw is that this is simply not true...
118 points180 comments1 d ago
- I’d rather her want me than need me
There seems to be alot of guys who complain about the current state of dating and how women have shifted bc they no longer need men and how that should be perceived as a bad thing. I personally...
67 points106 comments3 d ago
- Becoming salty/jaded about dating is very normal
Since dating is a topic most people have strong opinions about, I’ll draw some parallels to the job market. We live in a society characterised by contractual freedom. No one is obligated to enter...
56 points114 comments6 d ago
- Women who complain about their boyfriend being “insecure” shouldn’t do things to make him feel insecure.
For example, my ex had rules for me that she didn’t have for her ex (who she went and casually fucked when we weren’t seeing each other for a little while, then lied to me about it). When I found...
54 points158 comments6 d ago
- You’re not my usual type is a red flag
A lot of guys view this as some sort of compliment as if they’ve accomplished something to pat themselves on the back about but it’s honestly disrespectful. A woman telling you this is basically...
53 points258 comments7 d ago
- Women's attraction is based on inequality
Unless you've been living under a boulder in the Himalayas or some remote jungle like the Congo, it's clear what attracts women. Women are attracted to inequality. As much as society likes to riff...
47 points381 comments1 d ago
- How does the statistic that 41% of US births are financed by Medicaid fit into the view that “women only want men who make six figures”?
I see the “6 pack, 6 feet, 6 figures” phrase mentioned a lot. If women are ruthlessly refusing to have sex with “low earning” men, why are so many babies being born requiring health insurance that...
39 points126 comments6 d ago
- If she wanted to, she would
I mean this in the context of women will absolutely approach and pursue the men they’re really interested in. Both from real world things I’ve seen and a plethora of stories online, it’s evident...
32 points296 comments2 d ago
- Building interest is a waste of time
In dating there’s typically 3 types of women. High interest, medium interest and low interest. A lot of guys find themselves frustrated trying to impress women that fall in the last two category...
30 points68 comments4 d ago