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I live in the UK and the past couple of years have...", "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1xqwtc1/sorry_fellas_women_no_longer_settle_for_the_beta/" }, { "title": "Some men need to realise that women are also adults with jobs", "score": 118, "comments": 180, "created_utc": 1794252240.095, "snippet": "This common saying that \"women go out and party through their 20s only to settle for the stable provider in their 30s\" has one big flaw. Obviously, the biggest flaw is that this is simply not true...", "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1xs11e7/some_men_need_to_realise_that_women_are_also/" }, { "title": "I’d rather her want me than need me", "score": 67, "comments": 106, "created_utc": 1794143227.445, "snippet": "There seems to be alot of guys who complain about the current state of dating and how women have shifted bc they no longer need men and how that should be perceived as a bad thing. I personally...", "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1xqy0kw/id_rather_her_want_me_than_need_me/" }, { "title": "Becoming salty/jaded about dating is very normal", "score": 56, "comments": 114, "created_utc": 1793862117.792, "snippet": "Since dating is a topic most people have strong opinions about, I’ll draw some parallels to the job market. We live in a society characterised by contractual freedom. No one is obligated to enter...", "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1xoc66p/becoming_saltyjaded_about_dating_is_very_normal/" }, { "title": "Women who complain about their boyfriend being “insecure” shouldn’t do things to make him feel insecure.", "score": 54, "comments": 158, "created_utc": 1793843552.256, "snippet": "For example, my ex had rules for me that she didn’t have for her ex (who she went and casually fucked when we weren’t seeing each other for a little while, then lied to me about it). When I found...", "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1xo6g8m/women_who_complain_about_their_boyfriend_being/" }, { "title": "You’re not my usual type is a red flag", "score": 53, "comments": 258, "created_utc": 1793801925.912, "snippet": "A lot of guys view this as some sort of compliment as if they’ve accomplished something to pat themselves on the back about but it’s honestly disrespectful. A woman telling you this is basically...", "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1xnpdku/youre_not_my_usual_type_is_a_red_flag/" }, { "title": "Women's attraction is based on inequality", "score": 47, "comments": 381, "created_utc": 1794243551.718, "snippet": "Unless you've been living under a boulder in the Himalayas or some remote jungle like the Congo, it's clear what attracts women. Women are attracted to inequality. 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