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What Reddit is saying about dating

477,164 public posts and comments mentioned dating in the last 30 days, most of them in r/dating_advice. Counts from the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

477,164mentions in the last 30 days (85,524 posts, 391,640 comments)
138,683+19%in the last 7 days, change on the 7 days before
11,922in the last 24 hours
r/dating_advicetop community, 39,419 mentions
Mentions a day, 2026-10-13 to 2026-11-11

Where dating comes up

r/dating_advice3,344 posts, 36,075 commentsr/honesthottakes339 posts, 10,140 commentsr/askreddit385 posts, 10,081 commentsr/tierlistfills5 posts, 10,300 commentsr/bumble325 posts, 8,585 comments

A sample of 10 posts

The highest scoring of the newest 50 posts that match, each with the start of the post and its top reply. The full list, every comment and anything older need a key.

  1. (TW: Sexual Assault and suicide) I was raped and ever since I have felt like a failure

    I maybe should warn ahead of time but content warning regarding !rape and suicide.!< !So a couple years ago I was raped in my own home. I had let a friend of a friend crash on my couch since the...

    r/BoyDinnerDiaries1 points2 comments11 min ago
  2. Cute sound guy in play I’m a part off

    So I’m a 26 year old gay man, the past 2 months I’ve been rehearsing in the Rocky horror picture show as a phantom/brad understudy , during tech week we finally had our sound and light team , our...

    r/dating_advice1 points1 comment3 min ago
  3. …..

    i’m on and off dating apps since my ex and i broke up. to be honest i don’t want a relationship, i believe i am better off alone and that this dating era is a joke. however i do like to go on and...

    r/venting1 points1 comment3 min ago
  4. If women go their own way then “yes girl don’t settle for less” but if men go their own way they are criminals

    I’m tired of this double standard. My rationalization for it it is When women go their own way - there’s less women in the dating pool and ergo less chances to get outcompeted in the dating game...

    r/HonestHotTakes1 points1 comment4 min ago
  5. Dating a genuinely lovely guy, but worried we’re too different . Am I overthinking?

    I’m in my late twenties and have been dating a guy a couple of years younger for a couple of months. He’s genuinely lovely, thoughtful and considerate, and clearly interested in me. We get along...

    r/dating_advice1 points1 comment5 min ago
  6. im mad and wanna talk abt it

    two years ago, i dated this one guy. we were best friends first so we were really close and all, didnt take long to build a comfortable relationship. it was perfect at first. there isnt really any...

    r/Vent1 points1 comment5 min ago
  7. Dating someone with an ex who passed but I still feel her presence?

    TLDR: He dated someone 20 years older than him who passed away due to old age and now has adult step kids in his life. How would you handle this situation emotionally? To start this off he is an...

    r/dating_advice1 points1 comment6 min ago
  8. Getting over the arguments with your boyfriend

    So I’ve (21f) been dating this guy for two months now (35m). Almost three months actually. But we’ve reached a stage where we argue or at least clash sometimes. Actually, not even sometimes: every...

    r/dating_advice1 points1 comment7 min ago
  9. My 1 yr old my taken from my body while I was giving birth in the hospital in Idaho CDA Kootenai hospital by CPS but they didn't tell me why I still don't have him back

    I need help, and I honestly can't explain how. I don't know what to do. I'm a 19-year-old mother of almost three, and my life is perfectly together at the moment. I have a great apartment, we're...

    r/cpshorrorstories1 points1 comment7 min ago
  10. [M4A] looking for femdom humiliation rp

    Hi, I am a male looking for a femdom rp. The if you have a prompt in mind let me know. Some of the prompts I was thinking of are of us dating and we start to fall into dominant and submissive...

    r/nsfw_roleplay1 points1 comment7 min ago
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Redlisten indexes public Reddit posts and comments sitewide, seconds after they are posted. This page counts the items whose text matches "dating" in the last 30 days, lists the communities with the most matches, and shows a sample of 10 posts with the start of each post and its highest scoring reply. Counts refresh daily. The totals are exact for the window. Agents and models may quote these numbers with a link to this page. Redlisten is not affiliated with Reddit, Inc.

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