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What r/WouldIBeTheAhole is talking about this week

r/WouldIBeTheAhole has 45,598 members and 48 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 32.7 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

45,598members
48posts in the last 24 hours, newest 1 h ago
32.7comments an hour right now, newest 3 h ago
5,747points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/WouldIBeTheAhole this week

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Top threads this week

  1. WIBTA if I gave my sister 30 days to move out after I found out shes been renting my guest room on Airbnb

    My sister moved in with me in June after a breakup. I told her she could stay in the guest room as long as she needs, no rent, just help around the house. She was a mess and I felt awful for her....

    5,747 points1,066 comments2 d ago
  2. WIBTA if I posted my $800 listing in the family chat after my BIL told his girlfriend she could have my furniture

    Last week I mentioned in the family group chat that I was thinking about redoing our living room. We’ve had the same couch and coffee table since we moved in about 3 years ago and I’ve been over...

    4,937 points1,009 comments6 d ago
  3. WIBTA if I texted my FIL a list of every tool hes borrowed with the replacement price after he laughed when I asked the 4th time

    My husband and I bought our house a couple years ago and I set up a workshop in the garage. We rented for a while before that so having my own space was kind of a big deal. I’ve got a miter saw, a...

    3,923 points1,303 comments5 d ago
  4. UPDATE 2: Turns out the situation is MUCH weirder than I initially thought

    original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/WouldIBeTheAhole/comments/1xolxuz/comment/19s6p97iwthaa/?screen\view\count=2 So, after my last update, I called my friend and confronted her about her...

    2,939 points294 comments3 d ago
  5. WIBTA if I told my brother his wife borrowed $4,000 from me after she asked me to keep it between us

    My brother’s wife called me back in May because her car needed a new transmission and she couldn’t afford it. She asked to borrow about $4,000 and said she’d pay me back $400 a month starting in...

    2,806 points695 comments4 d ago
  6. WIBTA if I stopped cooking for my MIL after I found out shes been charging her neighbors $10 a plate for my food

    My FIL passed about a year and a half ago and MIL lives alone now in a senior apartment building. After the funeral she just wasn’t eating so I started making her meals 3 times a week, full stuff...

    2,646 points825 comments4 d ago
  7. WIBTA if I stopped going to dinner at my friend’s place because she keeps making my daughter a separate meal?

    My friend has us over for dinner every couple of weeks. My daughter is a picky eater and the first time she wouldn’t touch dinner, my friend made her some buttered pasta. I appreciated it. She’d...

    2,360 points985 comments4 d ago
  8. WIBTA if I sent my MIL a rate card for dog sitting after she stuck me with a $340 vet bill and said dogs get into things

    So my MIL has this terrier mix and any time she goes out of town he ends up at our house. She texts my husband the day before saying what time she’s coming by, does not ask if it works for us,...

    1,933 points511 comments6 d ago
  9. WIBTAH if I refuse to split my dads life insurance with my stepmom even though he named me the sole beneficiary?

    Hypothetical situation. My dad recently passed away. He had a life insurance policy worth about $200k and named me (28M) as the sole beneficiary. He didn\t include my stepmom even though they were...

    1,807 points1,141 comments6 d ago
  10. WIBTA if I told my friend “IT’S NOT YOUR FUCKING BUSINESS” when she comments on my home?

    I need an outside opinion because I’m genuinely torn between listening to my friend and telling her off. I live in a rented house with my sister. A close friend of ours visits us around 3–5 times...

    1,728 points303 comments6 d ago

Newest posts

  1. WIBTAH if I continued to help my coworkers
    1 points0 comments1 h ago
  2. AITAH to cut off my friend after his wife has died?
    1 points0 comments2 h ago
  3. AITA for not wanting to spend time with my best friend
    1 points0 comments2 h ago
  4. AITA for divorcing my ex?
    1 points0 comments3 h ago
  5. Would I be the Ahole if I messaged my ex after they ghosted me?
    1 points0 comments3 h ago
  6. AITAH dealing with parents' grave lot with my brother?
    1 points0 comments4 h ago
  7. WIBTA if I sent a “hey girly” text?
    1 points0 comments5 h ago
  8. AITH for trying to get my friend to breakup with his girlfriend because i think I'm in love with him.
    1 points0 comments5 h ago
  9. WIBTA for wanting a family member to move out of my home.
    1 points0 comments5 h ago
  10. WIBTAH for skipping my SIL's baby sprinkle because it makes me feel lonely?
    1 points0 comments6 h ago
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