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What r/Needafriend is talking about this week

r/Needafriend has 591,637 members and more than 100 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 15.6 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

591,637members
100+posts in the last 24 hours, newest 3 min ago
15.6comments an hour right now, newest 14 h ago
58points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/Needafriend this week

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Top threads this week

  1. 23F, I drove two hours to visit a friend and she forgot I was coming

    Sat in her driveway and texted and she said oh I made other plans. Drove home and cried. I like pottery, cold brew, and going to bookstores with no plan. I deserve a friend who's excited to see me...

    58 points15 comments6 d ago
  2. 24F, I work from home, live alone, and just realized I haven't touched another human in three weeks

    Not even a handshake. I high-fived myself when I finished a project and that might be rock bottom. I love hiking, making pour-over coffee, and I've been getting into bird identification. Any form...

    36 points24 comments5 d ago
  3. 25F, I haven't had a real conversation in weeks

    The kind where someone asks how you actually are and waits for the real answer. I work in data entry which is as social as it sounds. I love museum hopping, writing poetry, and making overly...

    29 points10 comments3 d ago
  4. 25F, I just realized all my friendships were one-sided

    Stopped reaching out as an experiment and it's been three weeks of nothing. I love pottery, farmer's markets, and I'm learning to play the drums in my garage. Looking for people who actually want...

    28 points12 comments4 d ago
  5. 20F, the thing about loneliness is it makes you desperate and desperation pushes people away

    It's a loop and I'm stuck in it. Trying to break out by being honest instead of performing casual. I like journaling, painting, and listening to records. Not pretending I don't want this. I really...

    27 points11 comments4 d ago
  6. 29F, I used to have a huge friend circle and now I eat dinner alone most nights

    Life happened and everyone prioritized other things and I don't blame them but I miss noise. I love cooking for people (it's kind of pointless alone), wine tasting, and doing the NYT crossword...

    26 points8 comments3 d ago
  7. 24F, the hardest part of moving abroad is having no one to do nothing with

    I can explore a city alone but I miss sitting on a couch doing absolutely nothing next to someone who's also doing nothing. I love cooking, learning languages, and watching terrible movies and...

    26 points8 comments4 d ago
  8. 23F, I watched a friend group form right in front of me without including me

    Same gym same time every week. They all started chatting and bonding and I'm on the treadmill three feet away invisible. I like working out, making smoothies, and I'm obsessed with interior...

    26 points5 comments4 d ago
  9. 21F, I just realized I have no one to call when something good happens

    Got a promotion today and sat in my car for ten minutes trying to think of someone to tell. Ended up texting my mom which is fine but it hit different. I like journaling, thrifting, and making...

    26 points14 comments5 d ago
  10. 20F, I put on real pants today for the first time in four days and it's because I forced myself to leave the house

    Target trip alone, talked to nobody, came home with candles I don't need. I like candles apparently, also drawing, and making weird playlists. If your pants are also mostly optional and your...

    26 points6 comments6 d ago

Newest posts

  1. 26F, I talk to the self-checkout machine more than real people most days
    1 points0 comments3 min ago
  2. 17M looking for some 16-18F or M to be friends.
    1 points1 comment13 min ago
  3. M41 looking for some internet friends
    1 points1 comment19 min ago
  4. Hey there ! How're u doin? (21M from India)
    1 points1 comment20 min ago
  5. 45 M from Ireland looking to make new friends
    1 points1 comment23 min ago
  6. F44 looking forward to make friends
    1 points1 comment31 min ago
  7. 20F, the pandemic stole my college social years and I never recovered
    1 points1 comment33 min ago
  8. 18M from India, looking for like-minded people!
    1 points1 comment36 min ago
  9. 27F | Looking for someone to chat with and hopefully become friends ☺️
    1 points1 comment41 min ago
  10. 17M. Looking for a long term friend ✌️
    1 points1 comment52 min ago
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