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I really...", "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/Needafriend/comments/1xqy3l2/20f_the_thing_about_loneliness_is_it_makes_you/" }, { "title": "29F, I used to have a huge friend circle and now I eat dinner alone most nights", "score": 26, "comments": 8, "created_utc": 1794193324.028, "snippet": "Life happened and everyone prioritized other things and I don't blame them but I miss noise. I love cooking for people (it's kind of pointless alone), wine tasting, and doing the NYT crossword...", "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/Needafriend/comments/1xrgoy0/29f_i_used_to_have_a_huge_friend_circle_and_now_i/" }, { "title": "24F, the hardest part of moving abroad is having no one to do nothing with", "score": 26, "comments": 8, "created_utc": 1794150192.172, "snippet": "I can explore a city alone but I miss sitting on a couch doing absolutely nothing next to someone who's also doing nothing. I love cooking, learning languages, and watching terrible movies and...", "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/Needafriend/comments/1xr0fpj/24f_the_hardest_part_of_moving_abroad_is_having/" }, { "title": "23F, I watched a friend group form right in front of me without including me", "score": 26, "comments": 5, "created_utc": 1794105112.903, "snippet": "Same gym same time every week. They all started chatting and bonding and I'm on the treadmill three feet away invisible. I like working out, making smoothies, and I'm obsessed with interior...", "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/Needafriend/comments/1xqnn8p/23f_i_watched_a_friend_group_form_right_in_front/" }, { "title": "21F, I just realized I have no one to call when something good happens", "score": 26, "comments": 14, "created_utc": 1794057493.372, "snippet": "Got a promotion today and sat in my car for ten minutes trying to think of someone to tell. Ended up texting my mom which is fine but it hit different. 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