- Am I the only one here on non-speaking terms with a an ex spouse?
Everyone around me seems to talk to their exes lol. Even those with no kids with them. I am not sure if it is a bad sign that I do not want to talk to him. Or if future prospects will view that as...
112 points265 comments7 d ago
- Would you get married again???
I was just wondering how many would want to remarrie? Personally, I don't think I could ever put that much trust into another person ever again.
106 points267 comments2 d ago
- Did anyone have their hoe era after divorce?
Just wondering if you had a “hoe era” after divorce and how long it took you to get it out of your system. I (40F) was married for 22yrs, so I feel like I’ve had some energy to use up. I left my...
103 points280 comments5 d ago
- Final nail in the coffin was our biased female therapist
Husband and I went through Rula to get marriage counseling. We landed with a female therapist in her 60's with a hippy vibe. She wasn't ok with talking about any details. When my husband said he...
89 points80 comments3 d ago
- Husband says he wants to dial back and talking about divorce since I made an investment on my premarital funds
I am in my 30s, expecting a child and now terrified of a divorce. My husband is going into retirement at 55. We have a prenup, and I currently pay all the expenses associated with the home and...
57 points175 comments3 d ago
- I thought I was through the worst.
I’ve been divorced for almost 3 years now.(54m) I’ve dated a few women, and had fun. I’ve planned my retirement. And moved on in many ways but at a slower pace. I have ptsd from a lot of things,...
52 points34 comments6 d ago
- Some people "move on quickly" because they've been starving for love and affection for years, and someone comes along and offers them what they know they deserve.
I used to judge people who appeared to find love again so quickly after divorce or a breakup. I don't anymore. I spent years begging my husband to show me affection, intimacy, even just a real...
48 points9 comments2 d ago
- Ex Wife has a new BF
Yesterday, I ran into my ex at the kids' school. She told me that she is going to introduce the kids to her new boyfriend. Divorced 2 years ago, M33, F35 I knew this day was going to come...
42 points89 comments4 d ago
- Physical changes post divorce?
Has anyone experienced changes internally and externally post divorce? I’ve gained a bit of weight and am curvier because my appetite is back again, my skin has never been more clear, my hair is...
41 points25 comments3 d ago
- How do I handle the absolute hate and contempt I now have for someone I used to love?
13 year marriage, 3 kids, I was the sole provider and would have done anything for her. Now that we’ve been separated almost two years and the divorce battle has raged on (mostly driven by her...
40 points36 comments6 d ago