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What r/Divorce is talking about this week

r/Divorce has 211,797 members and 55 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 16.2 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

211,797members
55posts in the last 24 hours, newest 31 min ago
16.2comments an hour right now, newest 4 h ago
112points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/Divorce this week

kids10marriage9divorced9separation9wife7husband6move6love6months6advice6work5dating5

Top threads this week

  1. Am I the only one here on non-speaking terms with a an ex spouse?

    Everyone around me seems to talk to their exes lol. Even those with no kids with them. I am not sure if it is a bad sign that I do not want to talk to him. Or if future prospects will view that as...

    112 points265 comments7 d ago
  2. Would you get married again???

    I was just wondering how many would want to remarrie? Personally, I don't think I could ever put that much trust into another person ever again.

    106 points267 comments2 d ago
  3. Did anyone have their hoe era after divorce?

    Just wondering if you had a “hoe era” after divorce and how long it took you to get it out of your system. I (40F) was married for 22yrs, so I feel like I’ve had some energy to use up. I left my...

    103 points280 comments5 d ago
  4. Final nail in the coffin was our biased female therapist

    Husband and I went through Rula to get marriage counseling. We landed with a female therapist in her 60's with a hippy vibe. She wasn't ok with talking about any details. When my husband said he...

    89 points80 comments3 d ago
  5. Husband says he wants to dial back and talking about divorce since I made an investment on my premarital funds

    I am in my 30s, expecting a child and now terrified of a divorce. My husband is going into retirement at 55. We have a prenup, and I currently pay all the expenses associated with the home and...

    57 points175 comments3 d ago
  6. I thought I was through the worst.

    I’ve been divorced for almost 3 years now.(54m) I’ve dated a few women, and had fun. I’ve planned my retirement. And moved on in many ways but at a slower pace. I have ptsd from a lot of things,...

    52 points34 comments6 d ago
  7. Some people "move on quickly" because they've been starving for love and affection for years, and someone comes along and offers them what they know they deserve.

    I used to judge people who appeared to find love again so quickly after divorce or a breakup. I don't anymore. I spent years begging my husband to show me affection, intimacy, even just a real...

    48 points9 comments2 d ago
  8. Ex Wife has a new BF

    Yesterday, I ran into my ex at the kids' school. She told me that she is going to introduce the kids to her new boyfriend. Divorced 2 years ago, M33, F35 I knew this day was going to come...

    42 points89 comments4 d ago
  9. Physical changes post divorce?

    Has anyone experienced changes internally and externally post divorce? I’ve gained a bit of weight and am curvier because my appetite is back again, my skin has never been more clear, my hair is...

    41 points25 comments3 d ago
  10. How do I handle the absolute hate and contempt I now have for someone I used to love?

    13 year marriage, 3 kids, I was the sole provider and would have done anything for her. Now that we’ve been separated almost two years and the divorce battle has raged on (mostly driven by her...

    40 points36 comments6 d ago

Newest posts

  1. Anyone not miss their ex, but sad to be alone?
    1 points0 comments31 min ago
  2. Stuck on the fence for years. How did you eventually decide to lean in and stay or go?
    1 points0 comments58 min ago
  3. Divorce has been really hard on me.
    1 points0 comments1 h ago
  4. Trying to Divorce My Husband Who Was Deported to Zimbabwe – Need Help Serving Divorce Papers
    1 points0 comments3 h ago
  5. 1 month enough to decide for divorce?
    1 points0 comments3 h ago
  6. Ex hasn’t collected her settlement.
    1 points0 comments3 h ago
  7. Meeting up with realtor
    1 points0 comments3 h ago
  8. When do you know it’s time for a divorce?
    1 points0 comments3 h ago
  9. We agreed to divorce, I had a consultation with a lawyer today, and was basically advised to just try to work on my marriage. Now what?
    1 points0 comments4 h ago
  10. Locks changed
    1 points0 comments5 h ago
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