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What r/BorderlinePDisorder is talking about this week

r/BorderlinePDisorder has 127,038 members and 19 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 3 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

127,038members
19posts in the last 24 hours, newest 40 min ago
3comments an hour right now, newest 4 min ago
137points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/BorderlinePDisorder this week

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Top threads this week

  1. Trend in young women using bpd as a sad cool girl aesthetic.

    Bpd, has ruined my life I cannot do what normal people do I cannot work a full time job I cannot have a partner due to my overwhelming emotions, then I go on Instagram and there are lots of videos...

    137 points33 comments7 d ago
  2. I need suggestions of actually good BPD representation in movies or shows

    PLEASE suggest me good representations of BPD in movies or shows, ESPECIALLY from the more internalizing/quiet side of things, whether they explicitly acknowledge BPD in the media or not.

    56 points76 comments3 d ago
  3. FUCK why don't people listen to BOUNDARIES I'm splitting!!!!!!!

    I literally said stop messaging me at least twice and I said "this is too much for me to handle right now" 3 FUCKING TIMES and now I'm SPLITTING SO COOL DUDE omfg I'm losing my fucking shit I hate...

    31 points11 comments4 d ago
  4. BPD is the most boring disorder EVERR

    Bpd os the most boring disorder ever Bpd is extremely boring. I have this lingering boredness all the time and i don’t know how to satisfy it..like i don’t want to do something stupid and...

    22 points33 comments1 d ago
  5. I wanna be sedated (fr)

    I've just been under IV sedation and feel the happiest and most carefreeI've felt in years despite going through hell currently. I wish I could experience this all the time or at least as a short...

    21 points16 comments2 d ago
  6. I live my life like I could end everything at any moment and can't see myself too far into the future

    Is it just me or living with BPD (especially if you have other comorbidities, like mood disorders and stuff) feels like always having this feeling you'll die in relatively little time, because...

    21 points4 comments6 d ago
  7. Chronic and baseline suicidality

    I always find it kinda funny when people/sources keep telling us to reach out for specialized services if you have any meaningful level of suicidal ideation. For example, I have a specific method...

    18 points12 comments5 d ago
  8. No one understands

    I want just one person in my life to understand the agony im in, the depth of pain i feel, the futility of life to me. I feel so alone, so lonely, shattered. I want someone to embrace me,...

    14 points10 comments1 d ago
  9. Anyone here have bpd and avoidant tendencies?

    Or avoidant attachment style? It’s what I have and I feel like it’s vastly different than what I normally hear getting described here

    13 points9 comments20 h ago
  10. Does anyone else have disorganised or fearful avoidant attachment ?

    I hear a lot about bpd and the monkey branching in always needing a relationship but I’m curious to know if anyone else has the opposite whereby it’s push pull with dating and very hard to let...

    12 points5 comments1 d ago

Newest posts

  1. Anyone here with BPD & is a responsible gun owner?
    1 points1 comment40 min ago
  2. Has anyone turned down an job while being unemployed?
    1 points1 comment45 min ago
  3. Sibling w BPD +ASPD in denial
    1 points1 comment1 h ago
  4. Ghosted on plans to go to an AA meeting
    1 points1 comment1 h ago
  5. Getting this off of my chest
    1 points1 comment3 h ago
  6. How to get over your FP when you have to see them everyday?
    1 points1 comment3 h ago
  7. No one romanticizes me in the long term, even though many find me physically appealing
    1 points1 comment4 h ago
  8. (Health) anxiety
    1 points1 comment4 h ago
  9. I want to be better.
    1 points1 comment5 h ago
  10. The day everything almost ended
    1 points1 comment5 h ago
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