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I have this lingering boredness all the time and i don’t know how to satisfy it..like i don’t want to do something stupid and...", "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/BorderlinePDisorder/comments/1xs4i1u/bpd_is_the_most_boring_disorder_everr/" }, { "title": "I wanna be sedated (fr)", "score": 21, "comments": 16, "created_utc": 1794176487.955, "snippet": "I've just been under IV sedation and feel the happiest and most carefreeI've felt in years despite going through hell currently. I wish I could experience this all the time or at least as a short...", "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/BorderlinePDisorder/comments/1xrav9o/i_wanna_be_sedated_fr/" }, { "title": "I live my life like I could end everything at any moment and can't see myself too far into the future", "score": 21, "comments": 4, "created_utc": 1793891188.774, "snippet": "Is it just me or living with BPD (especially if you have other comorbidities, like mood disorders and stuff) feels like always having this feeling you'll die in relatively little time, because...", "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/BorderlinePDisorder/comments/1xokz9g/i_live_my_life_like_i_could_end_everything_at_any/" }, { "title": "Chronic and baseline suicidality", "score": 18, "comments": 12, "created_utc": 1793935133.109, "snippet": "I always find it kinda funny when people/sources keep telling us to reach out for specialized services if you have any meaningful level of suicidal ideation. For example, I have a specific method...", "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/BorderlinePDisorder/comments/1xp2gxy/chronic_and_baseline_suicidality/" }, { "title": "No one understands", "score": 14, "comments": 10, "created_utc": 1794255396.217, "snippet": "I want just one person in my life to understand the agony im in, the depth of pain i feel, the futility of life to me. I feel so alone, so lonely, shattered. I want someone to embrace me,...", "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/BorderlinePDisorder/comments/1xs2gs7/no_one_understands/" }, { "title": "Anyone here have bpd and avoidant tendencies?", "score": 13, "comments": 9, "created_utc": 1794294171.278, "snippet": "Or avoidant attachment style? 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