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What r/AskWomen is talking about this week

r/AskWomen has 5,777,704 members and 7 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 24.1 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

5,777,704members
7posts in the last 24 hours, newest 8 h ago
24.1comments an hour right now, newest 22 min ago
769points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/AskWomen this week

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Top threads this week

  1. What is a subtle everyday task or precaution you take as a woman that you recently realized men in your life don’t even know exists ?
    769 points415 comments5 d ago
  2. Why don’t we just make our kids have our last name (Mothers last name)?

    We grow the kid inside our body, and give birth to them. But they almost always end up taking the father’s last name. Why can’t we give them ours?

    399 points292 comments2 d ago
  3. What’s something you thought was an “old lady thing” until you caught yourself doing it?
    216 points427 comments5 d ago
  4. How often do you think about past partners in a sexual sense?

    A male friend recently said he often fantasises about experiences with past partners, despite being in a relationship, how often do you?

    210 points173 comments6 d ago
  5. Women who started over in their mid 30s, how did it go for you?

    For those who went through a breakup and had to start over romantically in your mid 30s, how did it go for you? Please share your stories!

    202 points83 comments6 d ago
  6. What do you miss about being in a relationship or being single?
    193 points191 comments5 d ago
  7. What age did you definitively know if you did or did not want to have kids ? Why?

    I know some people always say the second they hit 30 but wanted to know if people knew earlier or later and if there was a reason

    168 points447 comments6 d ago
  8. Women, which places in real life have you noticed the most sane & decent men approach you for a date?
    158 points43 comments6 d ago
  9. How do you deal with a partner that has no drive in life?

    How have you dealt with a partner who doesn’t want to be an adult, has no goals, or drive to build a life together?

    153 points165 comments3 d ago
  10. What’s your everyday breakfast that actually keeps you full?
    141 points196 comments1 d ago

Newest posts

  1. What do you do with friends who likely gossip behind your back?
    31 points42 comments8 h ago
  2. How did you find or create your fashion sense/personal style?
    19 points42 comments19 h ago
  3. What made you finally believe in yourself?
    31 points37 comments22 h ago
  4. Mate Free Monday
    27 points0 comments22 h ago
  5. for those that grew up with fathers who were gone working a lot, how do you feel that affected you?
    51 points32 comments23 h ago
  6. How do you accept that some people will always gossip about you?
    100 points111 comments24 h ago
  7. How often do you see the person you’re dating and why?
    38 points40 comments24 h ago
  8. What are you wearing for your Corporate Christmas party ?
    15 points30 comments1 d ago
  9. How would you feel or react if someone was a confident and texter but nervous in person?
    8 points29 comments1 d ago
  10. Would you date someone who is HIV+? Why or why not?
    78 points205 comments1 d ago
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