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What r/aitaweddings is talking about this week

r/aitaweddings has 37,703 members and 24 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 34.8 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

37,703members
24posts in the last 24 hours, newest 6 min ago
34.8comments an hour right now, newest 34 min ago
16,854points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/aitaweddings this week

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Top threads this week

  1. AITA for returning our wedding gift after learning we have to give it away next year?

    My husband and I got married two months ago. His parents gave us his grandmother’s china, a full set with serving dishes. His mom said Grandma would’ve wanted us to have it. Nobody mentioned any...

    16,854 points3,662 comments5 d ago
  2. AITA for refusing to let my sister use my car at her wedding after I already said yes?

    I've got a 1978 Mercedes that belonged to our grandfather. Spent years restoring it and my sister asked if she could use it as the getaway car at her wedding. I said absolutely, thought it was a...

    2,144 points589 comments2 d ago
  3. AITAH for not letting my twins participate in pre-wedding events.

    So my(34m) sister(24f) is getting married next year, she recently decided no kids at the wedding. I have twins girls that will be 8 when the wedding happens, they are crazy well behaved like we...

    1,288 points748 comments6 d ago
  4. AITA for refusing to pay my uncle $1200 for my wedding video after he offered to film it as a gift

    My uncle does videography as a hobby. When we got engaged he told us at a family dinner not to worry about a videographer because the wedding video was his gift. We cut the line from our budget...

    726 points514 comments2 d ago
  5. AITA for removing one picture from our wedding slideshow without telling my fiancé?

    My future MIL put together a slideshow of childhood and family pictures for our wedding reception. She sent it to me to check for any mistakes. One picture was from about 10 years ago and had my...

    716 points763 comments2 d ago
  6. AITA for refusing to let my sister read the same poem she read at our mom's funeral at my wedding?

    My (29F) mom passed away five years ago. My younger sister (25) is supposed to do a reading at my wedding next month and she recently sent me the poem she picked. It's the exact same poem she read...

    646 points93 comments6 d ago
  7. Was my wife in the wrong?

    Met up with a buddy from college recently, he just got married and so did I so we were keen to catch up / see what everyone’s been up to. We were discussing the usual things and then my friends...

    461 points438 comments3 d ago
  8. AITA for refusing to let my best friend attend my wedding after she secretly contacted my ex-fiancé?

    I (27F) am getting married in two months to my fiancé, Daniel (29M). We've been together for three years, and I genuinely couldn't be happier with him. But something happened last week that has...

    411 points293 comments2 d ago
  9. UPDATE: AITA for refusing to pay for my bridesmaid's dress after she dropped out of my wedding? I finally found out why she really quit.

    I didn't expect to have an update this soon, but things have gotten a lot more complicated since my original post. For anyone who missed it, I (27F) am getting married in three months, and my best...

    401 points498 comments4 d ago
  10. AITAH FOR REFUSING TO WALK DOWN THE ISLE WITH MY EX AT MY BROTHERS WEDDING

    so basically my brother asked me to be his best man bc 3 other people backed out and I said okay, I was living across the country at the time and didn't know if I'd make it in time so I had to...

    308 points136 comments5 d ago

Newest posts

  1. WIBTAH for telling my best friend I'm dropping out of her wedding?
    1 points0 comments6 min ago
  2. AITA for asking my fiancé not to include our wedding date on his family’s annual Christmas ornament?
    1 points0 comments2 h ago
  3. AITA for refusing to let my future in-laws decide what happens to our wedding leftovers?
    1 points0 comments3 h ago
  4. AITA for refusing to include my fiancé's handwritten notes in our wedding guest book?
    1 points0 comments3 h ago
  5. AITA for refusing to let my fiancé's family choose which wedding photos go into our wedding album?
    1 points0 comments3 h ago
  6. AITA for refusing to change our wedding date because my cousin doesn't want to miss her vacation?
    1 points0 comments4 h ago
  7. AITA for refusing to let my husband's family take home the decorations from our wedding because they helped pay for them?
    1 points0 comments4 h ago
  8. AITAH for calling off the marriage and filing for a divorce.. less than a month after walking down the aisle?
    1 points0 comments6 h ago
  9. AITA for refusing to let my future MIL wear my late mother's wedding dress to my wedding?
    1 points0 comments7 h ago
  10. AITA for getting pissed off at my FSIL for inviting her in-laws to our civil ceremony
    1 points0 comments11 h ago
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