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What r/whatdoIdo is talking about this week

r/whatdoIdo has 518,614 members and more than 100 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 124.8 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

518,614members
100+posts in the last 24 hours, newest 7 min ago
124.8comments an hour right now, newest 15 h ago
20,404points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/whatdoIdo this week

boyfriend14friend10wrong9girlfriend9don't9found8sister8husband7don7family7feel7sex6

Top threads this week

  1. I told this girl I found her bf on a dating app

    so, i have dating apps installed but only really check them super occasionally. i also look into pretty much anyone i talk to ever. i had 1 match and it was this guy who was openly in a...

    20,404 points2,741 comments5 d ago
  2. Cat’s old owners want her back after saying we could keep her.

    This is Muffin, and she is quite literally the perfect cat. We found her at our door with a respiratory infection, and tracked down the owners, who said we could keep her. The owners just (like...

    7,143 points611 comments4 d ago
  3. Female friend sent me a strange text

    I've been talking to this girl I met online (Discord) for over a year now. She's kind of weird and has obsessive tendencies. I considered her one of my online friends, so naturally I confided in...

    5,832 points1,745 comments4 d ago
  4. What do I do?

    I was seeing this guy 6 years ago (2020) and it didn’t work out. He called me twice on his birthday at 12:30 am this year, about a week ago. I didn’t answer He apparently got back with his ex...

    4,588 points682 comments21 h ago
  5. my boyfriend wants to have sex but my body won’t let me

    i (18f) have been dating my boyfriend (19m) for almost a year now, and he’s genuinely the sweetest person i’ve ever met. he’s patient, caring, and always makes sure i’m comfortable with everything...

    3,123 points3,464 comments5 d ago
  6. I accidentally called 911

    so my phone updated last week to where if i even hold down the power button slightly too long it comes up with an option to dial 911. i turned my phone off and had it against my leg cz i was...

    2,540 points760 comments5 d ago
  7. UPDATE: I found a hair scrunchie in my boyfriend's jacket that isn't mine. I finally asked him about it.

    For anyone who missed it, I (21F) have been with my boyfriend (25M) for almost two years, and we've been living together for about six months. A few days ago, I was doing laundry when I found a...

    2,231 points1,479 comments6 d ago
  8. UPDATE: AITAH for reporting my SIL (who’s also my manager) to HR for cutting my hours bc I’m pregnant

    original: https://www.reddit.com/r/whatdoIdo/comments/1xpcmbm/comment/19s96e4a966n5/?screen\view\count=1 ngl i did NOT expect this many comments. i read almost all of them, even the YTA ones. a...

    1,023 points143 comments4 d ago
  9. am I being groomed?

    so I'm 14F and my teacher is 23M. I noticed that he walks a little bit of my way home so I'd walk like 5-10 mins max with him, just chatting about school then we'd go our separate ways. there's a...

    878 points453 comments6 d ago
  10. AITAH for reporting my SIL (who’s also my manager) to HR for cutting my hours bc I’m pregnant, even tho my husband begged me not to?

    throwaway bc husband’s family is on here So I (27F) have worked at a grocery store for 3 yrs. For the last 8 months my manager has been my SIL “Dana” (34F), husband’s older sister. She’s actually...

    866 points270 comments6 d ago

Newest posts

  1. If you are talking to someone like an online pen pal and then realizing most of their replies are chat GPT do you feel stupid?
    1 points0 comments7 min ago
  2. What do I do about boyfriends past?
    1 points0 comments10 min ago
  3. A small request to support my wife’s big dream ❤️
    1 points0 comments14 min ago
  4. i think my "friend" is a psycho
    1 points0 comments18 min ago
  5. I feel so unloved by my gf but she sees no wrong
    1 points0 comments24 min ago
  6. urge to sleep around
    1 points0 comments27 min ago
  7. I (19F) keep finding remnants of my ex's Dr*g paraphernalia
    1 points0 comments31 min ago
  8. My best friend is marrying my ex am i wrong for cutting her off?
    1 points0 comments41 min ago
  9. my roommate is driving me nuts
    1 points0 comments44 min ago
  10. Worth pursuing or not? 19M(me) and 27f
    1 points0 comments47 min ago
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