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What r/tfmr_support is talking about this week

r/tfmr_support has 11,394 members and 9 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 3.1 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

11,394members
9posts in the last 24 hours, newest 2 h ago
3.1comments an hour right now, newest 19 h ago
62points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/tfmr_support this week

pregnant10t218baby8devastated6grief6stop6tuesday6scared6coping6long5feel5friend5

Top threads this week

  1. I did that shit

    My boys due date is next week. I’m sad, I can’t wait for that week to be over. I miss him so much. But more than anything I am so proud of myself for surviving that. There were months and months...

    62 points19 comments6 d ago
  2. L&D at 32 weeks. Terrified I'll fail.

    I'll share our full story someday if I can, but for now it isn't over and I'm worried I won't make it to the end. Our very, very badly wanted IVF baby boy has a severe variant of a rare genetic...

    33 points35 comments6 d ago
  3. Preparing for my second TFMR and devastated doesn’t even describe it.

    TW:LC mentioned We had to TFMR our baby boy back in March due to anencephaly. I was 20 weeks along. I experienced the incredible emotional fall out of postpartum with no baby to hold. I felt a...

    22 points11 comments2 d ago
  4. Had my TFMR today at 12 weeks and it has been the most devestating journey. How long did you get pregnant afterwards? And please share any poems or reading/podcasts that really helped you get through.

    Had my TFMR today at 12 weeks and it has been the most devastating journey...NIPT showed high risk for Patau syndrome and the scan then showed numerous severe clinical indicators of this. I am...

    21 points26 comments5 d ago
  5. The nightmare evolves: 32w pregnant and brain issue. Too late for genetic testing/ tfmr?

    I have had a nightmare pregnancy. And the nightmare continues. This pregnancy occurred after years of being told I was infertile. Then the baby's father left and ghosted me for continuing the...

    21 points9 comments6 d ago
  6. Looking for support- TFMR Gray Diagnosis

    Hi everyone, Today my husband and I made the impossible and heartbreaking decision that we plan to proceed with TFMR. I’ll be 23W5D the day of my D&E (week from today). Backstory: my husband and I...

    19 points20 comments5 d ago
  7. Just had tfmr and i feel okay?

    I had it done today due to baby boy being diagnosed with t18 at 12 weeks. I had nipt done early due to suggestion by my doctor and it came in yesterday. We were getting ready to meet with family...

    18 points27 comments5 d ago
  8. Multiple TFMRs due to chromosomal abnormalities, did you find an underlying cause?

    &x200B; Hey everyone. I’m 36 and unfortunately I’m about to go through my second TFMR. My first pregnancy was terminated at 18 weeks because of a chromosomal abnormality involving trisomy 13. That...

    17 points15 comments2 d ago
  9. Feeling guilty after TFMR

    Hey everyone, Two days ago I did TFMR in 18 weeks, because my baby had Down Syndrome. Before I did it, I knew exactly why I am doing it - trying to prevent my babys life to be full of medical...

    17 points10 comments5 d ago
  10. 6 months post tfmr! Friend disappeared when I was pregnant and now she's pregnant, she suddenly wants to reconnect.

    A mom friend pretty much ghosted me when I told her that I was pregnant. She was trying to conceive that time (her second kid) and when I mentioned my pregnancy she just vanished. She said...

    16 points7 comments4 d ago

Newest posts

  1. Planning TFRM in the next two weeks..
    1 points0 comments2 h ago
  2. Life is Incredibly Unfair
    1 points0 comments3 h ago
  3. Soy la mala por enfermarme y no decirle a nadie?
    1 points0 comments5 h ago
  4. TFMR for T21: Struggling with conflicting feelings of grief.
    1 points0 comments7 h ago
  5. Likely TFMR for T21
    1 points0 comments8 h ago
  6. Pregnancy following tfmr
    1 points0 comments10 h ago
  7. First period after D&E?
    1 points0 comments10 h ago
  8. Did I just TFMR for no reason?
    1 points0 comments11 h ago
  9. How can I support?
    1 points0 comments24 h ago
  10. Anybody stop after tfmr
    1 points0 comments1 d ago
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