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What r/survivinginfidelity is talking about this week

r/survivinginfidelity has 328,608 members and 20 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 19.3 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

328,608members
20posts in the last 24 hours, newest 2 h ago
19.3comments an hour right now, newest 16 h ago
232points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/survivinginfidelity this week

cheated26cheating14affair11found10husband9relationship9emotional8love8partner8back8left8everything7

Top threads this week

  1. She called a few times, she can keep calling, I’m not answering

    M30 In may my ex-wife (married 2, together 7 years) had an outing with coworkers and basically cheated with one of em, she felt guilty and told me. Basically I asked her if she wanted to be with...

    232 points60 comments3 d ago
  2. Just encountered AP.

    Divorces now for about a month or so. Been doing exceptionally well since making that break, but tonight, my buddy/ new roommate asked to play pool at a local haunt and I knew WW could possibly be...

    172 points35 comments6 d ago
  3. Just found out that my wife cheated on me after moving to a new country

    I (M30) found out yesterday that my wife (F27) has been cheating on me. We were together for 6 years (as of last week exactly) and married for almost 2. We moved to US last year and she had to...

    136 points94 comments6 d ago
  4. Everything turned out good for me

    Some days ago, I posted here about the multiple times she cheated on me. But something happened that has brought me complete peace, because I realised I really didn't lose anything worth holding...

    112 points17 comments2 d ago
  5. Wife’s desire for me vs AP?

    Is anyone else struggling with the fact that your wife desired their AP more than they will ever desire you? I (24M) decided to stay with my wife (22F) after her physical affair for the sake of...

    85 points157 comments4 d ago
  6. I found out I was being cheated on an hour before my work shift

    It was a normal day. I woke up to a good morning text from my boyfriend followed by a video call asking about how I slept. I had left his place late at night the day before and since he was doing...

    83 points11 comments5 d ago
  7. Update on life. 5 months from D-day.

    Hey, I've made a couple of posts here already, so feel free to check those out for some background. For a while, everything was going pretty great. I felt like I was moving on. I was going to the...

    76 points27 comments3 d ago
  8. My girlfriend of 1 year 5 months cheated with a coworker and says it was a one-time thing. Would you stay?

    I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 1 year and 5 months. I recently found out that she cheated on me with a coworker. She says it was a one-time situation and that it didn't happen...

    56 points175 comments4 d ago
  9. Struggling with suicide ideation

    Long story short. Been married seven years. My wife had a physical and emotional affair this last year and kept a secret for 11 months. She fell in love with her affair partner. I don’t know how...

    55 points50 comments3 d ago
  10. Cheated three times in 4 years, found out in 10 minutes

    After a big fight with my ex, I went to a friend for advice, and she ended up telling me everything, including that my ex had slept with someone else, even without protection. I decided to...

    49 points26 comments4 d ago

Newest posts

  1. More update, I hate the mood swings, even tho I understand everything.
    1 points1 comment2 h ago
  2. My ex of 5 years cheated(Monkey Branched) , here's how i feel after 3 years...
    1 points1 comment2 h ago
  3. He broke the no contact
    1 points1 comment5 h ago
  4. Very new to this, do not know how to feel
    1 points59 comments6 h ago
  5. Discarded after discovery
    1 points2 comments7 h ago
  6. Am I being unreasonable? How to handle this?
    1 points19 comments9 h ago
  7. 10 years down the drain
    1 points1 comment9 h ago
  8. Tempted to reach out tonight
    1 points7 comments11 h ago
  9. I feel like I was doing everything right
    1 points1 comment12 h ago
  10. I feel like I've lost a game
    1 points1 comment13 h ago
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