- After the midterms I'm starting to wonder if moving to a blue state is just a better choice in terms of mental health?
Maybe I'm just in a bad mood because my local economy isn't great. I stopped at a bar today to just have a drink before lunch because it's so hard to make any money doing sales work. I have to sit...
200 points202 comments5 d ago
- Why do people like LA over SF?
I was born in LA but moved to SF when I was little so I’ve seen a good bit of both over the years. Im now going to college in LA but SF/the bay seem to be so much better in many ways. The Bay is...
141 points544 comments3 d ago
- $264k NYC vs $242k Chicago vs $220k Anywhere
Bit of an odd question but yeah. My job lets me live anywhere in the USA, but I prefer eastern side/north ( love winters, hate earthquakes ). I’m from NYC originally (Queens) and absolutely love...
104 points395 comments6 d ago
- Is it time to stop talking about "Red States" and "Blue States"?
I grew up in the 1990s, so I remember a time before "Red States" and "Blue States" were a thing. I am not just talking about the politics, (which weren't even color coded yet), but with the idea...
98 points115 comments3 d ago
- Should I move to Cali or stay in Texas?
I recently moved to Texas from California after getting out of the military because it’s cheaper and my primary goal right now is wealth building. However, ever since I’ve stepped foot in Texas...
79 points458 comments2 d ago
- How do you just move? Are you not scared?
Seriously, I am 30, have decent money in the bank (nothing crazy but really my networth if you ignore my mortgage and extract my equity, is maybe $60k) and I am so terrified of losing everything?...
71 points71 comments5 d ago
- Colorado to… Michigan.
Well, the time is coming up (in the next year or so) where we are deciding to stay in Colorado or move somewhere (looking like Michigan.) I have been here going on 5 years and my husband for 14....
61 points284 comments7 d ago
- Eternal summer isn’t everything
Everyone talks about how they could live in a warm climate all year every year. I think we all think that at first, but eventually realize it’s not necessarily the best always. Could you live in a...
52 points263 comments2 d ago
- How much of a difference does a city actually make with dating?
It’s easy enough to make armchair observations, but I’m curious about what differences people have actually experienced or observed between different cities, and what might be driving those...
50 points111 comments2 d ago
- If you had to pick one which would you move to?
Gainesville, FL Austin, TX San Luis Obispo, CA Single Mid 20s researcher moving into second round interviews at the universities in all of the previously mentioned places. One of my biggest musts...
29 points265 comments2 d ago