- My husband wants a nontraditional relationship, but I’m struggling with the idea. What compromises are actually possible?
My husband and I have been having conversations about relationship structures and what fulfillment looks like for each of us. He has expressed that traditional monogamy may not be what he...
105 points1,034 comments4 d ago
- I broke up with my girlfriend after what happened over Halloween, but now she's apologizing and wants to get back together. I'm not sure what to do.
I'm honestly looking for some outside perspective because I'm not sure if I made the right decision or if I'm letting my emotions get the better of me. About a month before Halloween, my...
50 points186 comments6 d ago
- Should I have sex with another woman.
I M25 have been with my girlfriend F22 for three years now. It’s my longest relationship, and she means everything to me. I love her deeply, and I know she loves me just as much. We were friends...
38 points191 comments6 d ago
- My boyfriend of 5 years lied about being divorced. We have a whole ass toddler together.
I (29F) have been with my boyfriend (30M) for five years, and we have a 2-year-old daughter together. When we first met, he had been separated from his wife for about 5–6 months. He told me their...
31 points157 comments20 h ago
- What's a relationship red flag that people keep romanticizing?
What’s something society praises as a virtue, but you secretly think is actually a bad thing?
26 points124 comments3 d ago
- My boyfriend didn't tell me about his history with a girl in his social circle, then let her subtly humiliate me at a party.
I(23F) need some perspective on a situation that happened with my boyfriend(26M) at a Halloween party, and how he has handled the aftermath. My boyfriend previously hooked up casually (multiple...
23 points26 comments4 d ago
- Am I overreacting
Went to the bar with my girlfriend (36f) me a (40m) as we are in line she is like hey there is a guy who I used to hook up down there and if he sees me he may come over and say I and give me a...
19 points20 comments3 d ago
- I need to know this: Does my girlfriend 36F have double standards when it comes to me 32M?
Brief context: A month ago, she asked me to remove women from past on my Instagram. I told her there was no need for that, as it’s a personal rule of mine not to keep women from my past on my...
16 points47 comments1 d ago
- My (30M) girlfriend (27) wants to meet an old hinge match who is flying into town.
For the record we’ve been dating for 4 months, official for 2 months. They matched on hinge around beginning of this year and have not met physically in person. She wants to meet him because he...
16 points40 comments5 d ago
- Wife wants a spectator
Please advice, married for 8 years, 39m and 31f, she requested something weird, she wants us to get a girl to watch us while making love. At first i though she was joking but then she said why not...
15 points21 comments3 d ago