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What r/relationships is talking about this week

r/relationships has 3,780,164 members and more than 100 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 24.6 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

3,780,164members
100+posts in the last 24 hours, newest just now
24.6comments an hour right now, newest 5 h ago
509points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/relationships this week

boyfriend22girlfriend14partner9feel922f8break7love725f7don626f6sex623f6

Top threads this week

  1. I (22F) caught my boyfriend (23M) crying and realized how much he's been hiding.

    My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year. He's kind, caring, and unusually mature for his age. He has never once raised his voice at me. Even when something bothers him, it's somehow...

    509 points67 comments7 d ago
  2. My husbands (36M) chronic pain is tearing us apart. I (34F) don’t know how much more I can take.

    I (34F) have been married it my husband (36M) for a long time. My husband suffers from degenerative disc disease. Most of the time he does OK with it I can tell when he has some bad days but...

    392 points19 comments4 d ago
  3. I’m terrified my (21f) daughter has a severe ED. How do I help her?

    I’m a divorced single dad and my adult daughter lives with me. She spends all day locked in her room, eats almost nothing (strictly weighs food, avoids oil/carbs), and runs 4 to 6 hours a day. I...

    359 points52 comments5 d ago
  4. My roommate found out I liked her and she’s upset with me

    My roommate (21F) and I (21M) have been living together for roughly 3 months. We live with our other friend (20F). We met in freshman year but got closer sophomore year. We’re juniors in college....

    231 points20 comments5 d ago
  5. My girlfriend is pushing on a ring but my career just started

    I a (24M) have been with my girlfriend a (24F) have been together for about 3 years now. I am new pharmacist and recently passed my licensing exams. Since I passed, my girlfriend has been pushing...

    114 points108 comments2 d ago
  6. Wife sexting for one year

    59M. My wife (57F) has been sexting an old boyfriend from 30 years ago for about a year. He lives 8 hours away. I knew she was communicating with him because she mentioned that she had touched...

    94 points40 comments2 d ago
  7. BF booked a trip for himself over my birthday and our anniversary, what should I do

    I (28f) am upset because BF (31m) has flexibility with work such that he can book a trip any time (though has limited holiday time, i.e. can choose when to take it but not how much to take). He...

    87 points41 comments2 d ago
  8. I (36m) want to break up with my gf (35f) but I’ve never broken up with anyone before

    I (36m) have been dating this woman (35f) for about three months. We’ve established boyfriend-girlfriend. But I’ve come to the conclusion that she isn’t the one for me. I feel awful but she just...

    52 points30 comments3 d ago
  9. My Friend is Upset I Kissed Her Brother 3 Years Ago. How Can I Repair Things with Her?

    Three years ago, I (40F) went out for a wild night with my close friend (39F), her brother (37M), and her partner (42F). We all got drunk, ended up at a strip club, drank more, and the night ended...

    34 points49 comments3 d ago
  10. Partner buys me things and thinks thats enough to show that he "does everything for me"

    \im using the term "partner" because we aren't actually married, but have been common-law for 13 years.\ Hi everyone, I (34F) am in a common-law (33M) relationship. We have a 9 year old boy and 9...

    31 points25 comments7 d ago

Newest posts

  1. Can’t hold a relationship (15M
    1 points0 commentsjust now
  2. No confío en mi novio no sé qué hacer
    1 points0 comments16 min ago
  3. How do I (22F) handle my boyfriend’s (23M) lack of consideration and financial double standards now that I’m emotionally checked out?
    1 points0 comments16 min ago
  4. My (32M) boyfriend and I are arguing about logic and autonomy (28F)
    1 points0 comments39 min ago
  5. I (F23) think I’m being attached to someone (F23) I shouldn’t be
    1 points0 comments47 min ago
  6. My ex came back with regret and big promises, only to start dating someone else.
    1 points0 comments1 h ago
  7. Caught my (23F) boyfriend (24M) with trans porn in his search history, and his explanation doesn't make sense to me. Am I overthinking this?
    1 points0 comments1 h ago
  8. I (38M) have felt starved of affection by my wife (40F) for 13 years. Women, what would make you stop wanting to touch your husband?
    1 points0 comments1 h ago
  9. Bf quits job one fine day and all financial burden falls on me
    1 points0 comments2 h ago
  10. My girlfriend (F) and I (M) have been together for almost 2 years, but our arguments keep escalating. How can we break this cycle and rebuild healthy communication?
    1 points0 comments2 h ago
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