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What r/relationship_advice is talking about this week

r/relationship_advice has 15,913,566 members and more than 100 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 44.5 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

15,913,566members
100+posts in the last 24 hours, newest 2 min ago
44.5comments an hour right now, newest 4 h ago
3,253points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/relationship_advice this week

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Top threads this week

  1. Update: My (21M) girlfriend (20F) says she loves our 7-month-old daughter but doesn’t want to be a mom anymore and now wants a break.

    I posted like a week ago about my girlfriend saying she doesn’t want to be a mom anymore. She was still being a mom though. She was going out more and hanging out with friends a lot more. Like 3-4...

    3,253 points1,382 comments6 d ago
  2. My 35F husband 41M told me he "is not my maid" when I asked why he didn't clean up after our sick daughter. How can we address this postpartum imbalance?

    My 35F 11 month old daughter was recently ill and she vomited everywhere in the middle of the night, so I had to strip the sheets and her and my clothes. We breastfeed and co-sleep, and my husband...

    2,579 points475 comments4 d ago
  3. My (27M) best friend (26M) told me he and his GF don't click with my girlfriend (27F).

    One of my friends recently let me know that he and his girlfriend don't click with my girlfriend. We've hung out a few times (going out to dinner, going to a spa together, playing boardgames...)....

    924 points189 comments7 d ago
  4. My wife will not stop a story M35 F35. It drives me insane.

    My wife (F35) just started a new job a year ago. She left what she thought was a sinking ship. I (M35) was okay with that. She ended up in a very mundane position where there arent a lot of...

    663 points1,252 comments4 d ago
  5. My Bf (26M) keeps insisting I (27F) take cooking lessons from my future overbearing MIL when I CLEARLY don’t want to??!!

    Context: my bf and I are currently planning our wedding in India (we are both Indians I am Hindu - or agnostic and he is Sikh) and our parents have met several times to decide dates of the...

    550 points316 comments3 d ago
  6. My(34M) longtime friend(F31) doesn't respect my relationship and keeps attacking my girlfriend (36F). What is the proper way to deal with it?

    I have a friend from Uni. I've known her for over 10 years we've spent a lot of time together mostly going out but sometimes we cooked together or watched movies and I have met her parents and...

    521 points356 comments3 d ago
  7. My (22M) girlfriend (22F) doesn’t like when I play video games.

    I’m not someone who’s gaming all the time. Like most of the people, It’s something I do to unwind. I have an emotional attachment towards as I grew up alone and that’s my way to feel good about...

    455 points436 comments5 d ago
  8. My (21F) partner (21NB) thinks not having clutter is "upper class" and shuts down when I talk about having a neat place

    This has come about because I'm trying to move out and my partner and I want to get a place together. Growing up my mom was kind of a neat freak. I lived in apartments up until I was 8 years old...

    449 points296 comments3 d ago
  9. My boyfriend (29M) was seriously injured 5 months ago, and I (24F) am struggling with how much our relationship has changed.

    I’m 24F and my boyfriend is 29M. We’ve been together for a little over a year, and honestly, I’m at a point where I don’t even know what to do anymore. About 5 months ago, my boyfriend was...

    428 points140 comments6 d ago
  10. My (26M) GF (22F) of 1 year has been making up insane, traumatic stories about her past. Turns out she lied?

    So, my GF and I have been together for a year. Since day one she’s been dropping these absolutely crazy and shocking stories about her past, that I cannot describe here but it really traumatized...

    425 points75 comments2 d ago

Newest posts

  1. My 26M BF went to a bachelor party and I 26F don’t like how he went about it…
    1 points1 comment2 min ago
  2. M19 F24 I don’t love my girlfriend the way I used to after a big conflict with my Ex but I don’t want to drag the relationship on but I don’t want to be suddenly harsh and break up with her, how do I navigate this?
    1 points0 comments7 min ago
  3. I (28M) feel like my gf (25F) hates me a week before her period. Does this happen in other relationships?
    1 points1 comment14 min ago
  4. M22 F22 I don’t know how to deal with my insecurity about how my partner looks.
    1 points1 comment22 min ago
  5. How can I rebuild my girlfriend’s trust after she found messages with my ex from before we got back together? (m/18) (f/19)
    1 points1 comment26 min ago
  6. I (28m) am trying to tell my partner (25f) that she is not capable of playing World of Warcraft with me and my friend. Help?
    1 points1 comment29 min ago
  7. My (30F) boyfriend (33M) reacts with guilt tripping and making himself the victim in arguments, how do I deal with this?
    1 points1 comment32 min ago
  8. I'm (23M) getting close to a girl (23F) with a different sexual history, and I'm struggling to understand how to approach this before committing.
    1 points0 comments41 min ago
  9. Am I (29F) being a bad friend to my coworker (35M) for not answering his phone calls?
    1 points0 comments56 min ago
  10. Possible rejection? F19 & M22
    1 points1 comment1 h ago
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