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What r/raisedbynarcissists is talking about this week

r/raisedbynarcissists has 1,120,214 members and 93 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 28.1 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

1,120,214members
93posts in the last 24 hours, newest 12 min ago
28.1comments an hour right now, newest 34 min ago
1,275points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/raisedbynarcissists this week

parents22mother21mom19narcissistic17feel14else14family13dad12life11i'm10tell7parent6

Top threads this week

  1. “If someone doesn’t f-ing talk to me right now, I’m never f-ing calling you again!” Me: *hangs up* Dad: *Surprised Pikachu Face*

    This is my first time here and I made this account just to talk about this: I, (34M, liberal) got a phone call from my father (61 and very MAGA) on Wednesday night, he wanted to talk about the...

    1,275 points102 comments2 d ago
  2. My mother filled out my ballot for me and turned it in behind my back.

    A few weeks ago I texted my mom asking if my ballot delivered to my parent’s house (I moved out 2 years ago). She never responded. I thought it was weird but figured she forgot to respond, big...

    897 points206 comments6 d ago
  3. My mom committed voter fraud

    So I recently turned 18 last month, which means that I should’ve finally been able to vote. Well a few weeks ago I received my ballot in the mail. I was planning to vote blue. Then a few days...

    838 points52 comments5 d ago
  4. I read my moms diary from when I was a teen and now I feel cold to her

    When I was a child / teen I knew my mom hated me, it was very apparent in how she treated me. But I found it hard to believe it anyways because as a young person I thought it was impossible for a...

    785 points68 comments5 d ago
  5. Mom disowned me on facebook.

    "My daughter decided to go non-contact so I decided to disown her. She never has to worry about me contacting her ever again. It was quite freeing and I now have a peaceful life with people that...

    757 points73 comments3 d ago
  6. My Mom Murdered all my Pets

    Growing up I had this string of pets with short lives and tragic endings. 2 birds, a turtle, almost my current dog. My first bird died on my forst time at away camp. I came home and excitedly said...

    519 points38 comments5 d ago
  7. My brother got caught downloading CSEM

    Soooo at the start of the year my mum rang me at 6am to tell me the family home had been raided and my little brother (19) had been arrested for downloading CSEM. I went from 0-100 absolutely...

    498 points181 comments3 d ago
  8. A therapist implied I was a narcissist. How do I find out if it’s true?

    I had a therapist on Talkspace for a few weeks, and when I told her a few things that I had experienced (being raised in a narcissistic family system), she said: “It’s ironic that you are seeking...

    437 points154 comments4 d ago
  9. I finally had enough

    Last week was Halloween. My 15-year-old daughter and I had our own plans already. Her friend was picking her up and they were planning to get ready for a party followed by a big sleepover at...

    374 points58 comments4 d ago
  10. My Mother contacted my Trauma Therapist…

    I cut off my mother, as well as my entire Nfamily earlier this year. My mother was the ringleader and the most sadistic out of the bunch. After trying several others, I’ve found a wonderful a...

    370 points46 comments6 d ago

Newest posts

  1. I cant help but hate her
    1 points1 comment12 min ago
  2. I still wake up in a panic
    1 points1 comment31 min ago
  3. trying to leave
    1 points1 comment59 min ago
  4. How bad did your family affect your life?
    1 points1 comment1 h ago
  5. Telling mom you’re pregnant
    1 points1 comment1 h ago
  6. I am left speechless when I think about people who abused me.
    1 points1 comment1 h ago
  7. Has anyone been bullied due to having aggresive behavior?
    1 points1 comment2 h ago
  8. Took the bait, oops
    1 points1 comment2 h ago
  9. Title: The sudden switch to being "nice" gives me worse anxiety than the screaming/silent treatment
    1 points1 comment2 h ago
  10. Can anyone figure out what POSSIBLE condition my dad has?
    1 points1 comment3 h ago
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