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What r/Perimenopause is talking about this week

r/Perimenopause has 173,196 members and 32 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 43.4 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

173,196members
32posts in the last 24 hours, newest 32 min ago
43.4comments an hour right now, newest 10 min ago
1,335points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/Perimenopause this week

hrt22feel12progesterone10anxiety8dose8estradiol8patch8period7else6vaginal6life5symptom5

Top threads this week

  1. I just crapped myself in my OWN HOME 10 yds from a bathroom.

    WARNING ⚠️ If you're easily grossed out or offended by poop stories. run Look. We've all probably had a case of the "period shits" thanks to prostaglandins, but this was on another level. After a...

    1,335 points286 comments3 d ago
  2. I was told I was just in perimenopause, but I really had cancer

    So I am 42 and started to have some symptoms that were really uncomfortable. I turned to google as many do and determined I was just in peri menopause. All of my doctors said testing my hormones...

    1,017 points135 comments1 d ago
  3. My son is learning about menopause in grade 12

    My son is taking grade 12 biology and they are on the reproduction unit. He showed me his study notes and there was a section on menopause! He told me I was way too excited about that. I told him...

    688 points39 comments3 d ago
  4. Inner Labia, M.I.A-bia

    Sorry for the TMI, but I have to get myself to laugh at how \dysphoric\ this is while genito urinary syndrome of menopause is. They’re almost gone. Like. Little bits on either side of the clit....

    486 points230 comments2 d ago
  5. Kiss Your Night Vision Goodbye…

    All of the sudden, the dark is seemingly darker outside… And I’m not talking about Daylight Savings Time. I’m also not talking about cataracts, because I had my eyes checked only a few months ago…...

    453 points161 comments4 d ago
  6. Doctor sent me to a specialist who thinks it's far more likely I have a rare tumour than I'm just perimenopausal.

    I (F41) went to the doctor last year about peri symptoms and wanting to start HRT. Doctor has been problematic about many things in the past. I asked if I needed any bloodwork for this kind of...

    445 points312 comments2 d ago
  7. Feeling like life has lost all magic and mystery

    48F. I honestly was not prepared for this, like so many of you. I expected hot flashes and maybe some occasional intense emotions flaring. Instead it's like...no emotions, except anxiety. But the...

    355 points158 comments2 d ago
  8. Medical professionals: perimenopause and menopause are not the same thing

    Last week, I went to see a new GI specialist for some issues that are becoming unbearable. While she was asking about my symptoms, weight, and lifestyle, I also mentioned, "Perimenopause is...

    307 points103 comments11 h ago
  9. One year and one day

    One year and one day ago I had my last period. A few days ago I got a cystic pimple on my chin. I was really tired and my joints were hurting. This morning I was thinking I had not been this tired...

    298 points17 comments2 d ago
  10. Lonely but don't want to be around people?

    Does anyone else feel this way? Sometimes I feel lonely and even bored, rarely have plans anymore, yet when I actually get together with friends or do things, I don't want to be there and am ready...

    264 points57 comments2 d ago

Newest posts

  1. Premature menopause?
    1 points2 comments32 min ago
  2. Slynd causing daily migraines
    5 points10 comments2 h ago
  3. WTF? I go on a cleaning binge and suddenly I'm not normal? I decided to make my kids accountable, now I'm overbearing. I'm at the point where I've done everything for everyone else for 20 years and the second I am not killing myself for everyone else. I'm the bad girl. Why does finally standing up f
    168 points32 comments2 h ago
  4. Shift to lower progesterone dose and anxiety returning
    9 points5 comments3 h ago
  5. Hair
    5 points17 comments4 h ago
  6. Terrible memory
    26 points10 comments4 h ago
  7. Palpitations
    2 points8 comments6 h ago
  8. HRT
    8 points21 comments7 h ago
  9. Starting the patch tomorrow and terrified.
    6 points38 comments7 h ago
  10. Getting sick all the time
    9 points20 comments7 h ago
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