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What r/OnlineAffairs is talking about this week

r/OnlineAffairs has 215,132 members and more than 100 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 8.4 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

215,132members
100+posts in the last 24 hours, newest 3 min ago
8.4comments an hour right now, newest 3 h ago
41points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/OnlineAffairs this week

m4f111f4m50looking46est17dad10married9seeking8connection8let8love6little6spark5

Top threads this week

  1. 35 [F4M] Ohio. Seeking someone who will keep me excited to go to the gym

    Curvy, married, mom looking for someone to keep them hyped and excited to go to the gym. I go three or four days a week, and I love the habit, but I want to have someone in my pocket who's proud...

    41 points21 comments7 d ago
  2. 37 [F4M] if only

    Here I am in the Reddit jungle, holding my weed wacker swerving around ghosts, drytexters and emotional beige, seeking something real instead. I am married, just like you. Empty nest. I am looking...

    38 points17 comments5 d ago
  3. 33 [F4M] est has anyone fallen in love here?

    No, for real. Married not looking to change that. I’m in my feels tonight. It’s almost shark week.. I’m watching a very unhealthy amount of love is blind. A small tussle with my spouse and a few...

    34 points53 comments2 d ago
  4. 34 [F4M] Another attempt to max out my charisma bar

    Hello, stranger! What are ya buyin? 👀 So... you may have seen me post here before. Life got a bit chaotic and I ended up removing my post. I'm pretty new to all of this and still figuring things...

    33 points17 comments3 d ago
  5. 42 [F4M] Mom Next Door Looking for Dad Next Door #EST

    Hey there! Married mom here looking for a married dad who values a genuine connection. I’m blonde, HWP, and active. Witty, smart, thoughtful, and open-minded. I enjoy reading, watching a good...

    33 points18 comments3 d ago
  6. 44 [F4M]

    Hello,I’m a married stay at home mom who is missing having someone to talk to, im just looking to meet someone genuine around my age for good conversation and friendship. Life gets busy, and...

    33 points26 comments6 d ago
  7. 27 [F4M] Must be this old to ride (40+)

    Freshly woken up from a wet dream and I came straight here. I picked a witty title to attract a more mature audience but I’m sure I’ll get a bunch of, “I know you said older, but…” Seriously...

    32 points28 comments1 d ago
  8. 30 [F4M] - Craving for some deep conversations, flirty banters & some much needed warmth this fall

    Well I am here because I am missing something in my relationship at the moment which I have been craving deeply. As someone whose love language is touch, I crave to be held, to be made to feel...

    27 points10 comments6 d ago
  9. 45 [F4M] -Our Little Secret

    Hiya. Posting here in hopes to find the right AP, which I know is out there. Find me! Too bad guys feel they need to reply to every F4M post, ha! Soooo maybe I will keep this sort of short! Anyway...

    25 points10 comments2 d ago
  10. 35 [F4M] #Indiana it's about time

    Hiiii, I'm married and a stay at home mom looking for someone to keep my attention and heart racing. I've been here before with some decent success but would love to find something long term. I'm...

    23 points24 comments2 d ago

Newest posts

  1. 37 [M4F] #Southeastern Connecticut- Come sneak away with me this holiday season?
    1 points1 comment3 min ago
  2. 30 [M4F] Ireland 🇮🇪 Bots don’t even reply to me anymore 😂
    1 points1 comment4 min ago
  3. 58 [m4f] east coast - can we just lay here and forget about the world
    1 points1 comment14 min ago
  4. 32 [M4F] GA/FL/Online. Emo/Punk.
    1 points1 comment15 min ago
  5. 45 [M4F] - #Online. Do you come here often?
    1 points1 comment19 min ago
  6. 50 [M4F] - Looking for my daily sunshine that keeps me happy and smiling all day long!
    1 points1 comment24 min ago
  7. 34 [M4F] #Spain Looking for someone to flirt with, make notifications fun again
    1 points0 comments25 min ago
  8. 29 [M4F] Somewhere between just chatting and oh no, I really like her
    1 points1 comment31 min ago
  9. 32 [M4F] #Denver married, fit, and craving a domme/mistress who knows how to take complete control
    1 points1 comment34 min ago
  10. 25[M4A] Committed relationship dead bedroom... Discussion/advice
    1 points1 comment35 min ago
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