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What r/offmychest is talking about this week

r/offmychest has 3,502,516 members and more than 100 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 34.8 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

3,502,516members
100+posts in the last 24 hours, newest 3 min ago
34.8comments an hour right now, newest 4 h ago
3,445points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/offmychest this week

life16i'm13feel12hate7anymore7don't7friend6died6found6person5mom5friends5

Top threads this week

  1. Had a threesome with my girlfriend and her friend. She heavily regretted it and the friend later publicly humiliated her.

    My (20M) girlfriend (19F) and I went to the same college. She ran track and met a girl named Hannah through the team. Hannah was openly lesbian and never hid it, which is fine and she was also...

    3,445 points235 comments5 d ago
  2. I dropped a baby once and it died.

    Hi everyone, So, I had stage three cancer (neuroblastoma) between the ages of 7 to 14. Naturally, there were periods in which I was severely malnourished and exhausted and could barely lift a cup,...

    3,215 points208 comments5 d ago
  3. UPDATE: Found Out HR Blocked My Promotion

    I posted here weeks ago about my Manager informing me that our HR department had blocked my promotion, and that she and my Assistant Director were working to push it through. I got confirmation...

    1,777 points28 comments5 d ago
  4. My boss made me apologize to a customer who was lying. I got my revenge 6 months later

    I used to work at a small furniture store. One customer claimed I'd promised him a free delivery and assembly service, which I absolutely hadn't. My manager knew this because he'd been standing...

    1,641 points42 comments2 d ago
  5. We found a thing that fixed our marriage and I'm too embarrassed to tell a single person we know

    Early thirties, married a few years. Our sex life had gone functional. Happening, occasionally, fine. Then we started talking to other married couples. Message through reddit. No photos, no calls,...

    1,352 points88 comments2 d ago
  6. I wish I didnt have children so I could drive off of a bridge

    36F Single mom. Zero physical or financial support 4 kids with autism or adhd. Fled domestic violence 2 years ago. Work in a school because of a lack of childcare School pays me 21890 a year....

    1,230 points120 comments3 d ago
  7. (Update) My husband may have have ruined us and I'm so angry with him

    My update is that I have decided to separate from my husband. In order to get divorced, we have to live separately for a year first. In my country the only option for a divorce is the one year...

    920 points51 comments6 d ago
  8. I lost twins and discovered my partner's double life on the same day.

    Last year, my partner of 18 months ended our relationship and casually dropped a bombshell: “By the way, my friend with the two kids? Yeah… that’s my failed marriage, and those two boys are mine....

    813 points19 comments5 d ago
  9. My cousin’s husband is being passive aggressive towards me because I do not want to use his Airbnb for my business trips

    My cousin’s husband owns a Airbnb 10 minutes away from my clients’ office. I visit them about every other month and when he heard about he offered to let me stay in his property. I told I’m ok and...

    757 points41 comments2 d ago
  10. I found something my mother left for me before she died and I honestly dont know what to do with it

    &x200B; My mom died when I was 16 and we werent really close during her last months. I was a stupid teenager who thought he knew everything and we argued alot over small things. Yesterday I was...

    643 points20 comments6 d ago

Newest posts

  1. what do I do?
    1 points0 comments3 min ago
  2. I’d love to doom scroll, but I gotta go..
    1 points0 comments7 min ago
  3. I get so mad that people dont understand that it’s 70% choice 30% feelings
    1 points0 comments10 min ago
  4. Flea infestation drove me back into addiction
    1 points0 comments11 min ago
  5. I am genuinely not supposed to exist
    1 points0 comments14 min ago
  6. I will be drinking bl3333ch and vodka and sletting my wisks via Livestream
    1 points0 comments24 min ago
  7. Am I a bad person for leaving my mom behind?
    1 points0 comments28 min ago
  8. Meaningful interaction with stranger I’ve not spoken about in 8 years
    1 points0 comments31 min ago
  9. I don't want friends anymore (irl)
    1 points0 comments31 min ago
  10. heartbreak, nothing that actually matters.
    1 points0 comments34 min ago
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