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What r/marriageadvice is talking about this week

r/marriageadvice has 114,416 members and 50 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 24.4 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

114,416members
50posts in the last 24 hours, newest 1 h ago
24.4comments an hour right now, newest 45 min ago
114points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/marriageadvice this week

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Top threads this week

  1. Pretty sure I hate my wife

    I’ve only been married for a little over 2 years, my second marriage, her first. when we first got together it was pretty unreal because I’d never been so happy in my life, but the past year...

    114 points270 comments4 d ago
  2. Found out today my (34M) wife (41F) had an affair 8 years ago (we've been married for 5). 2 Children, completely unsure how to proceed.

    My wife and I are both freelance and so sometimes have periods where we have to stay in another town during the week. I have supported us financially for the duration of our ten year relationship,...

    112 points208 comments3 d ago
  3. Financial Infidelity

    I’ll try to summarize as best I can. My (35F) husband (44M) have been married for 8 years, together for 10. When we met, I lived in an apartment and he owned a house. I moved into his house after...

    110 points388 comments5 d ago
  4. My wife and I have reached an impasse, and I am so devastated.

    My wife (31F) and I (32M) have been together for 7 years. Early on we thought we wanted children but my wife had come to the realization that she just can't bring herself to genuinely want...

    103 points207 comments1 d ago
  5. My best friend tried to cop a feel

    My wife and her friend went out last night. It was my wife's first night out since having a baby. They went out for dinner and decided to go to a bar that one of my best friends works at. They...

    90 points84 comments3 d ago
  6. My wife (33F) still loves me (33M), but wants to end our 15-year relationship to experience life on her own. How do I deal with this?

    What I’m asking for advice about I’m trying to understand whether my insecurities and reactions were signs of controlling behavior, or whether I was expressing legitimate concerns about changes in...

    72 points257 comments6 d ago
  7. How to compromise with husband on retirement?

    My husband and I are at a complete standstill over his retirement timeline, and it’s causing arguments. I am currently in my third trimester of pregnancy with our first child, and I feel like his...

    41 points602 comments5 d ago
  8. My husband told me he would treat me better if I were his mistress. Am I wrong for being upset?

    My husband and I had an argument today, and something he said has really hurt me. I honestly don’t know what to think, so I’m looking for some outside perspectives. We had planned to go out for...

    39 points83 comments7 d ago
  9. Having trouble forgiving my wife.

    I (34m) have been with my wife (34f) for nearly 14 years (married 6 years). We have two young children together, but have been having quite a few arguments over the last two years or so. These...

    37 points55 comments3 d ago
  10. I (M34) developed a work crush after my wife (F37) cheated on me.

    Like the title says. My wife and I are in the process of reconciling our marriage since we also now have a child. The sadness was and is so hard that I think it’s driven me to somewhat fall for a...

    36 points91 comments3 d ago

Newest posts

  1. my husband watch other females
    1 points0 comments1 h ago
  2. Should I chase or let her go ?
    1 points0 comments1 h ago
  3. Question only to those who has fetish, because you will know if this is one or not. He said it not a fetish.
    1 points0 comments1 h ago
  4. A cunnilingus question about his tongue
    1 points0 comments2 h ago
  5. Wife cheated on me twice, and now we’re trying to rebuild our marriage. I’m just not sure how to feel about everything.
    1 points0 comments2 h ago
  6. Advice/help needed
    1 points0 comments2 h ago
  7. I recently came across a mother-son relationship that made me pause — curious what others think
    1 points0 comments2 h ago
  8. Opinions
    1 points0 comments3 h ago
  9. AITAH for being angry at my husband for crying over his dead mother?
    1 points0 comments3 h ago
  10. Wife Committed Financial Infidelity (again)
    1 points0 comments4 h ago
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