- Pretty sure I hate my wife
I’ve only been married for a little over 2 years, my second marriage, her first. when we first got together it was pretty unreal because I’d never been so happy in my life, but the past year...
114 points270 comments4 d ago
- Found out today my (34M) wife (41F) had an affair 8 years ago (we've been married for 5). 2 Children, completely unsure how to proceed.
My wife and I are both freelance and so sometimes have periods where we have to stay in another town during the week. I have supported us financially for the duration of our ten year relationship,...
112 points208 comments3 d ago
- Financial Infidelity
I’ll try to summarize as best I can. My (35F) husband (44M) have been married for 8 years, together for 10. When we met, I lived in an apartment and he owned a house. I moved into his house after...
110 points388 comments5 d ago
- My wife and I have reached an impasse, and I am so devastated.
My wife (31F) and I (32M) have been together for 7 years. Early on we thought we wanted children but my wife had come to the realization that she just can't bring herself to genuinely want...
103 points207 comments1 d ago
- My best friend tried to cop a feel
My wife and her friend went out last night. It was my wife's first night out since having a baby. They went out for dinner and decided to go to a bar that one of my best friends works at. They...
90 points84 comments3 d ago
- My wife (33F) still loves me (33M), but wants to end our 15-year relationship to experience life on her own. How do I deal with this?
What I’m asking for advice about I’m trying to understand whether my insecurities and reactions were signs of controlling behavior, or whether I was expressing legitimate concerns about changes in...
72 points257 comments6 d ago
- How to compromise with husband on retirement?
My husband and I are at a complete standstill over his retirement timeline, and it’s causing arguments. I am currently in my third trimester of pregnancy with our first child, and I feel like his...
41 points602 comments5 d ago
- My husband told me he would treat me better if I were his mistress. Am I wrong for being upset?
My husband and I had an argument today, and something he said has really hurt me. I honestly don’t know what to think, so I’m looking for some outside perspectives. We had planned to go out for...
39 points83 comments7 d ago
- Having trouble forgiving my wife.
I (34m) have been with my wife (34f) for nearly 14 years (married 6 years). We have two young children together, but have been having quite a few arguments over the last two years or so. These...
37 points55 comments3 d ago
- I (M34) developed a work crush after my wife (F37) cheated on me.
Like the title says. My wife and I are in the process of reconciling our marriage since we also now have a child. The sadness was and is so hard that I think it’s driven me to somewhat fall for a...
36 points91 comments3 d ago