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What r/LongDistance is talking about this week

r/LongDistance has 2,494,503 members and 98 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 18.8 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

2,494,503members
98posts in the last 24 hours, newest 5 min ago
18.8comments an hour right now, newest 10 min ago
1,805points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/LongDistance this week

boyfriend19relationship18partner17girlfriend12ldr11advice11broke10meet9feel921m8love7met7

Top threads this week

  1. My Long Distance Love Story with a Happy Ending!

    When I was 18, my dad was in a world triathlon series in Australia as part of Team USA. Planning the trip at the time, my mom decided we should all go to New Zealand too because “we’d never be at...

    1,805 points112 comments6 d ago
  2. Ugly crying currently

    Me and my beloved man have been together for 2 years and 4 months, we've never met before until recently, it was one week full of love and laughter, we had the best week ever. He was truly amazing...

    828 points66 comments2 d ago
  3. finally met!!

    i told myself i’d post on here as soon as we met so here i am!! best 5 days of my life, my roblox bf came all the way from texas to chicago to see me after only 6 months! i had so much fun with...

    702 points38 comments2 d ago
  4. We did it!!

    My boyfriend just propsed to me yesterday! I’m so happyyyy!!

    688 points33 comments13 h ago
  5. DISTANCE CLOSED!!

    Me 24f and my gf 23f finally closed the distance a few days ago!!!! The last few days have been the best of our lives and we cannot wait to make more memories, and settle down :3 Before we closed...

    558 points25 comments3 d ago
  6. Girlfriend came over from America and I'm beyond happy 😭

    This is her last week staying and I'm going to miss her so much, but God...I've never been so truly in love with someone like this. It's amazing how just one little person can help with everything...

    454 points12 comments3 d ago
  7. 8 years and marriage over in an instant 💔

    I found his messages with another girl from Overwatch. The lies just kept piling up, and in the end, when faced with two options: 1. My husband tells the other girl’s boyfriend what they’ve been...

    288 points39 comments4 d ago
  8. You've never truly loved someone until you've wished for their flight to be delayed.

    It's a different kind of feeling.

    153 points10 comments5 d ago
  9. Just wanted to share our trip to Bali. Our first meeting was a complete success! (F22-M26, 16000 km distance)

    We went from jakarta-bali-gili and it was very fun. Hes coming to see me again next year. Next year we’re going to stay in one place to focus on bonding with my family and friends It’s good to...

    87 points5 comments6 d ago
  10. Men who left an amazing woman in an LDR for someone local, did you ever regret it?

    My boyfriend and I were together for 2 years, and our entire relationship was long-distance. We saw each other about four times a year, usually for a week and a half per visit. I was planning on...

    84 points65 comments4 d ago

Newest posts

  1. Should I keep waiting for her, or is it time to let go? 21M and 19F
    1 points0 comments5 min ago
  2. [22M] long distance situationship, just failed 🫠
    1 points0 comments6 min ago
  3. How can someone go from being afraid of losing you to eventually deciding they don't want you anymore?
    1 points0 comments21 min ago
  4. 30 f4m seeking consistent chemistry, playful sexting vibes, and private fun
    1 points1 comment26 min ago
  5. 29F dating 45M — Looking for advice from Egyptians about my long-distance relationship
    2 points0 comments26 min ago
  6. My partner and I were in a brutal "takeout on the couch" rut. Here’s the 30-minute kitchen rule that actually broke it.
    0 points1 comment31 min ago
  7. Am i wrong for breaking up with bf
    0 points4 comments48 min ago
  8. (F19) Broke up with my bf (M18) I want to know if I was treated correctly?
    1 points0 comments53 min ago
  9. I (33F) am caught between Rock & a Hard Place (30F)
    1 points0 comments1 h ago
  10. Long distance (M20) & (F19)
    0 points0 comments2 h ago
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