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What r/lonely is talking about this week

r/lonely has 522,964 members and 75 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 8.4 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

522,964members
75posts in the last 24 hours, newest 29 min ago
8.4comments an hour right now, newest 19 h ago
409points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/lonely this week

friends17feel16loneliness14alone12life11i'm9birthday9feeling7never6tired6wanted5find5

Top threads this week

  1. I'm almost 40, and the loneliest part is the family I never got to have.

    I've never had a girlfriend, never had sex, and never had someone who wanted to build a life with me. For years I told myself I'd figure it out eventually. I'd lose weight, become better looking...

    409 points51 comments3 d ago
  2. What the hell is wrong with people in 2026?

    I’m 26M, and I’m genuinely starting to wonder what the hell happened to people. I have friends I’ve known for years. People I’ve traveled with, stayed up talking with, hosted at my place, given...

    292 points88 comments4 d ago
  3. Who else is silently struggling right now? 💔

    Some of us are fighting battles nobody sees. Smiling on the outside, falling apart on the inside. Anxiety, loneliness, sadness. And the hardest part? Having nobody to talk to. Who else is fighting...

    234 points89 comments3 d ago
  4. the world does not care that you are a good person.

    truth

    234 points44 comments6 d ago
  5. It's my birthday, no one wished :(

    I wish I had caring friends:/ I'm feeling really low.

    198 points278 comments4 d ago
  6. It’s my birthday today

    I’m estranged from family, got no friends but today is my birthday, I wish I don’t end up crying today at least I am now 27 years old, no job, no car, no house but I’m alive. I hope that’s a good...

    176 points81 comments5 d ago
  7. Just turned 42 about 24 mins ago lonely and sad

    I just turned 42 and I did it alone no friends or anything no girlfriend I’m just a sad lonely person

    78 points53 comments2 d ago
  8. 26F and i feel like a hermit

    i live with my parents and get paid to be my dads nurse my parents are 30 years older than me and dont really share my interests and they sleep a lot.. i was homeschooled because of bullying so no...

    77 points16 comments7 d ago
  9. How do I deal with regret of never having kids?

    I’m 57. I wish I had grandkids. My sister in law is always sending me photos of all the neat cool things she does with her grandkids. She’s 1500 miles away from me but even if I lived there it...

    59 points38 comments6 d ago
  10. I’m at the lowest point in my life

    I (33F) am the only single person in my friend group. In the past few weeks they all shared exciting news about pregnancies and one is getting married. It’s not that I’m not happy for them, I am...

    53 points12 comments3 d ago

Newest posts

  1. I feel very lonely and depressed..
    1 points0 comments29 min ago
  2. How do you learn to be okay with being alone when you've always wanted someone?
    1 points5 comments1 h ago
  3. Hate.
    1 points0 comments2 h ago
  4. Five Months of College and I Haven't Made Friends, What Do I Do?
    1 points0 comments4 h ago
  5. Been in Houston for 2 years, still no friends.
    1 points0 comments4 h ago
  6. I need someone to call and chat with
    1 points1 comment4 h ago
  7. I feel as if nobody cares about me
    1 points4 comments5 h ago
  8. everyone says i’m a catch but no one wants me
    1 points12 comments5 h ago
  9. she can see it in my eyes that i need it right now she can see it in my eyes that i wanna get out
    1 points0 comments5 h ago
  10. Needed to move back in with my parents—can anyone relate?
    1 points0 comments6 h ago
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