- Student hasn't waived right to see rec letter. How do I handle this?
Hi, reddit! I’ve agreed to write a recommendation letter for a student that I worked with in a supervisory capacity. I initially hesitated because the student was not the strongest in their...
277 points303 comments2 d ago
- Is crying really really hard about your thesis just part of the process?
Please say yes. I had a full-on break-down in front of my supervisor, which I found absolutely mortifying. Some friends in the program tried to cheer me up by sharing their own stories of breaking...
249 points74 comments5 d ago
- 6th year of PhD. Oh my god, I am actually in Hell.
I was supposed to defend this semester, but I cannot complete my dataset to save my life. I have to defend in the spring, and yet I cannot foresee a way I can actually finish this cursed project....
220 points22 comments6 d ago
- [UPDATE] Professor reported me for violating academic integrity for "faking/falsifying doctor's note" when I did not
This is an update for anyone following from this thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/GradSchool/s/aezeEr5pAC I appealed their sanctions in september and the office of academic integrity found that I...
204 points74 comments6 d ago
- Mastering out after 6.5 years
I entered my PhD program (biomedical sciences) in 2020 at an Ivy League institution. I have struggled with my project since my 2nd year, the results are always “close” but never quite there. After...
190 points22 comments3 d ago
- Letters of Rec - Did not waive my right to access them
I added 2/4 of my LOR writers to my PhD application portals. When I was asked whether or not to waive my right to examine my letters, I chose not to and cannot go back and change my decision....
186 points133 comments4 d ago
- Why do profs/students recommend working first so often?
Maybe it's more common in pre-professional fields. My thesis advisor suggested it too, but it's due to her background in policy probably. But I've had other professors in the humanities suggest...
87 points122 comments6 d ago
- Coming to class sick
My cohort has multiple immunocompromised people (plus someone who just got out of the hospital from an illness) and someone, who is generally pretty disruptive for other reasons I won’t be going...
79 points44 comments2 d ago
- How to be an “apathetic” TA?
I am an emotional person by nature; however, I’m working on creating tougher skin. This is what brings me here. If you are/have been a teaching assistant in a STEM related class, have you ever had...
76 points35 comments2 d ago
- Going into proposal defense in 2 hours!
I am defending my proposal in about two hours today. I felt confident and prepared up until about right now, but suddenly I feel unprepared... and this is just my proposal defense. These people...
57 points14 comments6 d ago