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What r/ftm is talking about this week

r/ftm has 329,833 members and 95 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 19 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

329,833members
95posts in the last 24 hours, newest 53 min ago
19comments an hour right now, newest 20 h ago
1,249points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/ftm this week

trans12surgery9men6top6man6advice6testosterone5start5look5shots5binder5gender4

Top threads this week

  1. My dad and I share pads (fun story)

    My dad had prostate cancer a few years ago and had his prostate removed, so he puts pads in his underwear to catch any dripping that naturally comes from having your prostate removed. I had bottom...

    1,249 points19 comments4 d ago
  2. Why are trans men babied?

    Does anyone else notice that certain wording is avoided when others refer to trans men? Nobody wants to say man. It’s always “transmasc” or “trans boy”. There’s nothing wrong with these terms...

    657 points156 comments4 d ago
  3. What are your thoughts on 'Death Before Detransition'?

    Hey guys, long time no post here. My girlfriend (25 FTMTF) said something to me the other night that has really had me thinking, so honestly just had to come here with it to hear from some other...

    476 points200 comments5 d ago
  4. The people who misgender me the most are trans women?

    Insight needed , but I'm irked that I have never been gendered correctly by a trans woman before. I recently attended an online meet up that wasn't queer orientated but had a mix of people...

    446 points56 comments4 d ago
  5. How do I gently inform my BF that he needs to LOCK IN!!!!

    Hello fellow trans people, I (22FTM) am dating my BF (22 cis guy) and I Do Not Pass as fully male in the slightest. I've been on T for 5 months, but am still closeted and plan to remain closeted...

    420 points75 comments4 d ago
  6. Being stealth can be so funny sometimes

    I'm a student teacher, doing my first Practicum, and today during one of the classes, I don't know how to translate the subject but it's basically like science (?), we were going over the...

    381 points24 comments3 d ago
  7. One of my NB friends outted me, insists she “clocked me” when we first met, don’t know what to do

    So one of my friends (nb goes by any pronouns). Has really been getting on my nerves. It sort of started a few weeks ago, she started saying she “clocked me” when we first met. Even though when I...

    227 points36 comments3 d ago
  8. Is my girlfriend a chaser?

    I (18ftm) have been dating my girlfriend (21, cis bi woman) for half a year. I don't know if she is actually a chaser or is my dysphoria hitting hard and making me delusional. My gf is openly...

    224 points72 comments4 d ago
  9. when reflecting on your childhood, do you view yourself as a little girl, little boy, or the space in between?

    i’ve been curious to know what others experience with this has been. for me, i do think some of my girlhood is integral to the way i grew up and was socialized. for others i know there is the...

    210 points247 comments7 d ago
  10. How do you stop comparing yourself sexually to cis men?

    Every person I have been with has either cheated with a cis man, said they missed the “real” thing, or got with a cis man immediately after me. I cannot stop comparing myself. I never wanted...

    190 points71 comments6 d ago

Newest posts

  1. Any Deaf/HoH people here?
    1 points0 comments53 min ago
  2. Why do my t shots hurt more now?
    1 points1 comment54 min ago
  3. What do i do?
    1 points1 comment1 h ago
  4. Day 2 post-op top surgery... Horniness is killing me 😭
    1 points1 comment1 h ago
  5. how flat should I be expecting to look in a binder
    1 points1 comment2 h ago
  6. My chest started hurting wheni started T
    1 points1 comment2 h ago
  7. Getting private top surgery in the UK, who should I go with?
    1 points1 comment2 h ago
  8. Trans men, what issues do you think transfems need to be more mindful of?
    1 points1 comment2 h ago
  9. Supposed to start T today but have so many doubts and fears
    1 points1 comment3 h ago
  10. Odd source of euphoria just dropped
    1 points1 comment3 h ago
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