- My dad and I share pads (fun story)
My dad had prostate cancer a few years ago and had his prostate removed, so he puts pads in his underwear to catch any dripping that naturally comes from having your prostate removed. I had bottom...
1,249 points19 comments4 d ago
- Why are trans men babied?
Does anyone else notice that certain wording is avoided when others refer to trans men? Nobody wants to say man. It’s always “transmasc” or “trans boy”. There’s nothing wrong with these terms...
657 points156 comments4 d ago
- What are your thoughts on 'Death Before Detransition'?
Hey guys, long time no post here. My girlfriend (25 FTMTF) said something to me the other night that has really had me thinking, so honestly just had to come here with it to hear from some other...
476 points200 comments5 d ago
- The people who misgender me the most are trans women?
Insight needed , but I'm irked that I have never been gendered correctly by a trans woman before. I recently attended an online meet up that wasn't queer orientated but had a mix of people...
446 points56 comments4 d ago
- How do I gently inform my BF that he needs to LOCK IN!!!!
Hello fellow trans people, I (22FTM) am dating my BF (22 cis guy) and I Do Not Pass as fully male in the slightest. I've been on T for 5 months, but am still closeted and plan to remain closeted...
420 points75 comments4 d ago
- Being stealth can be so funny sometimes
I'm a student teacher, doing my first Practicum, and today during one of the classes, I don't know how to translate the subject but it's basically like science (?), we were going over the...
381 points24 comments3 d ago
- One of my NB friends outted me, insists she “clocked me” when we first met, don’t know what to do
So one of my friends (nb goes by any pronouns). Has really been getting on my nerves. It sort of started a few weeks ago, she started saying she “clocked me” when we first met. Even though when I...
227 points36 comments3 d ago
- Is my girlfriend a chaser?
I (18ftm) have been dating my girlfriend (21, cis bi woman) for half a year. I don't know if she is actually a chaser or is my dysphoria hitting hard and making me delusional. My gf is openly...
224 points72 comments4 d ago
- when reflecting on your childhood, do you view yourself as a little girl, little boy, or the space in between?
i’ve been curious to know what others experience with this has been. for me, i do think some of my girlhood is integral to the way i grew up and was socialized. for others i know there is the...
210 points247 comments7 d ago
- How do you stop comparing yourself sexually to cis men?
Every person I have been with has either cheated with a cis man, said they missed the “real” thing, or got with a cis man immediately after me. I cannot stop comparing myself. I never wanted...
190 points71 comments6 d ago