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r/EngagementRingsHelp has 2,548 members and 11 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 18.8 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

2,548members
11posts in the last 24 hours, newest 1 h ago
18.8comments an hour right now, newest 36 min ago
99points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/EngagementRingsHelp this week

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Top threads this week

  1. Opinions welcomed!

    I’m wanting a custom ring made, and I know I want the center stone to be around 4ct and a 3mm band. I’m torn between a Dutch marquis and a moval. I went to Zales just to get sized and try on some...

    99 points182 comments1 d ago
  2. Comparing a jade engagement ring with green sapphire option

    I am currently deciding between two very different looks for a custom ring project. On one hand, I love the rich depth and glow of a jade engagement ring. On the other hand, green sapphires offer...

    46 points14 comments5 d ago
  3. What do you think?

    I’m in LOVE with my ring. For reference this is a 1ct cushion cut with tapered baguette side stones. I had to get a resize on my band so I’m not sure if that will make a difference with how it...

    44 points30 comments7 h ago
  4. A quick lesson on diamond clarity I learned while engagement ring shopping

    I've been down a massive research spiral lately trying to pick out an engagement ring, and understanding clarity scales was honestly the trickiest part. At first, I assumed you had to get a VVS or...

    33 points33 comments7 d ago
  5. Help me decide which engagement ring please

    Which ring looks best and just prettier in general? The lighting is different so hopefully the rings still look clear. Thanks so much for your honesty!

    31 points73 comments3 d ago
  6. Help me pick between these two rings for my girlfriend

    Hi all! Proposing soon and I'm stuck between two options. Would love some honest opinions. Which one would you pick and why? Anything I should look out for with either? Thanks in advance!

    26 points97 comments2 d ago
  7. Does this 3carat pear look too big

    Should I go down to a 2-2.5?

    18 points47 comments5 d ago
  8. Which wedding band? (Different width)
    18 points77 comments5 d ago
  9. What do you guys think of a 4ct pink sapphire center stone with platinum? Looking for honest opinions! ✨

    Just finished inspecting this piece and wanted some thoughts on colored center stones. Here are the specs: Total Carat Weight: 4.40 CTW Center Stone: 4.00 Carat Lab-Created Pink Sapphire (Cushion...

    17 points9 comments2 d ago
  10. Yellow gold or Platinum on my skin tone?
    17 points37 comments5 d ago

Newest posts

  1. Is a $1,000 budget for an engagement ring too low, or is that pretty standard?
    3 points13 comments1 h ago
  2. Does a round bezel hide the diamond too much?
    2 points2 comments1 h ago
  3. Loose Grown Diamonds - Honest Product and Customer Support Review
    2 points1 comment3 h ago
  4. Thoughts on these pear and pink diamonds?
    2 points2 comments6 h ago
  5. What do you think?
    44 points30 comments7 h ago
  6. small size, does this engagement ring look good?
    3 points3 comments8 h ago
  7. Which wedding band goes best?
    1 points7 comments10 h ago
  8. Anyone have a beaded gallery rail? Looking for inspo!
    4 points12 comments11 h ago
  9. Engagement ring opinions
    9 points28 comments12 h ago
  10. Which engagement ring setting to get?
    3 points12 comments13 h ago
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