- This man won me over by following up with my recommendations
I've \[31F\] been talking to this guy \[32M\] for about a month. We had three dates, then I had to travel and we texted through my trip. Now we're both sick, but hopefully date 4 will happen soon....
908 points196 comments6 d ago
- Fuck ghosting. Seriously
I just want to vent and remind people to be honest with their dates. I (34F) recently went on a date with a man(35M). What got me out on the date with him was that communication, honesty, and...
182 points122 comments5 d ago
- I am going to be alone forever and I feel like I have failed.
No matter the physical effort I put in, no matter what advice I implement from friends and therapists over several years, no matter the self improvement books or videos I read, nothing has worked....
127 points96 comments3 d ago
- I keep attracting men that are the complete opposite of me. The men that have a lot in common with are not interested .I don’t know what to do because I don’t wanna be in a incompatible relationship . Anyone have any advice
I’m 34. Outgoing . Liberal. Goofy Talkative . Love to travel have new experiences . I attract men that like are serious shy men Barely talk. Don’t like to go anywhere . Religious men who want to...
125 points59 comments4 d ago
- Got stood up for the first time
Well I'm 32, and just got stood up for the first time. We matched on a dating app, we had a few good back and forths, than we decided to plan on a date. She gave me her number, and we planned one...
110 points53 comments6 d ago
- I'm super far behind at 29, how do I speedrun everything I was supposed to learn over the last 10~ years?
I've essentially spent the last 10 years or so just fixing myself to be good enough and I think I'm finally at a spot where I'm close. I still need to finish a few aspects of my fitness (no abs...
99 points83 comments7 d ago
- Losing interest in dating?
Heey everyone I’m F28, been single for about 3 years now. I used to be somebody who lovedddd being in a relationship but idk lately dating has taken a backseat? I get approached quite frequently...
67 points39 comments4 d ago
- You just dont know, do you?
So. Today, i found out the person i've been getting close to and sleeping with is a repeat child sex offender. I'm glad i found out early, im glad that past relationships mean that i run the...
60 points16 comments3 d ago
- Can having sex too soon jeopardize a relationship?
I feel like the answer to this is obviously "yes," but I guess I'd like more input on the how and why. I (18F) have been with my boyfriend (20M) for only 2 months, but it honestly feels like I've...
58 points83 comments6 d ago
- Should I make it clear early on any sort of non monogamy (like threesomes) are a FUCK NO?
A recent convo with my friends reminded of another conversation I had with my ex years back. She asked about threesomes once, and I thought I was clear when I said "no... fuck no" She then asked...
57 points55 comments6 d ago