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What r/Crushes is talking about this week

r/Crushes has 137,275 members and 83 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 5.7 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

137,275members
83posts in the last 24 hours, newest 23 min ago
5.7comments an hour right now, newest 15 min ago
75points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/Crushes this week

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Top threads this week

  1. I think im a little too obsessed with the guy i like

    I started talking to this guy online every single day for the past 2 months, being constantly on the phone, playing games, texting, etc.. we spend literally every second together online. I have a...

    75 points29 comments5 d ago
  2. This is for the people who feel that they will never get to experience love.

    Hi. I wanted to make this post because I know there are so many people who feel the same way I do, and I hope that, even if just one person reads this, they feel a little less alone. I apologize...

    52 points6 comments2 d ago
  3. Why are we all so scared to admit we actually like someone?

    I keep seeing people here who want to tell their crush but are scared of rejection. Which I get, putting yourself out there is scary I, for one, think it’s way better to just say how you feel, but...

    50 points23 comments21 h ago
  4. I had my crushes dad's linkedin on my google auto complete

    omg i wanna actually bury myself in a hole and never come out, AGHSHSHHS. So basically I (19f) had this politics class with this guy, and he was really cute and we seemed to have hit if off pretty...

    50 points9 comments3 d ago
  5. What is that trait that made you drool over your crush?

    It was her pink lips that attracted me (too attractive for a man) I was so envious that I didn't have lips that looked like you were born with gloss.

    47 points47 comments7 d ago
  6. How are things with your crush going? Why?

    Terrible for me, he cut me off (I still don't know why) and we haven't talked for a month (We were friends) What about you?

    43 points71 comments6 d ago
  7. Heard some insane allegation today, what to think of it?

    I had walked to my class pretty early, much earlier than most of my class. The only people that had gotten there earlier than me were my class' tiny amount of girls, including the girl I have been...

    32 points5 comments6 d ago
  8. Confessing because I can’t do this anymore

    So I posted on here a while back about this guy that I like. Well, I’ve gotten to a point where it feels hopeless so I’m going to tell him how O felt about him and move on. I’m realizing that...

    27 points5 comments3 d ago
  9. I SENT MY CRUSH A CONFESSION TEXT

    There's this guy from work whom I like but rarely see, but when I do, he flirts with me. Since he's quitting soon, I decided I have to act now or regret it forever. He is a such a sweet and caring...

    25 points17 comments3 d ago
  10. .

    AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAASHEHUGGEDMETWICEANDATHOUSANDOTHERTHINGSAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA...

    24 points8 comments2 d ago

Newest posts

  1. Is It okay to tell someone you like that you like them ?
    1 points1 comment23 min ago
  2. Help need advice
    1 points1 comment24 min ago
  3. 21 F I just confessed to my crush im so nervous and anxious how do I handle rejection if it happens?
    1 points1 comment28 min ago
  4. Having a crush while being extremely anxious
    1 points1 comment29 min ago
  5. I think the guy I like (26 M) lied about his age to me (26 F) twice. What do I do?
    1 points1 comment30 min ago
  6. Trying to help someone (my crush) who's too stubborn to be helped, but I'm too stubborn to give up trying
    1 points1 comment35 min ago
  7. I (19F) have a crush on a 42-year-old woman I met recently, and I have absolutely no idea how to navigate this.
    1 points1 comment45 min ago
  8. Should I make a move on my crush after 3 months of lowkey pretending he does not exist?
    1 points1 comment47 min ago
  9. Is It okay to tell someone you like that you like them ?
    1 points1 comment53 min ago
  10. Went out with my crush, and it was absolutely amazing
    1 points1 comment1 h ago
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