- Officially cancer free!!!
I had a single mastectomy last week on Thursday and went in for them to check the wound and change the bandaging yesterday. It turns out the pathology results had just come in that morning. They...
318 points41 comments5 d ago
- What a Mindf*** This Is
It's an absolute mindfuck to have cancer and be walking around doing normal things such as work, shop, cook, clean, and looking absolutely healthy. Don't get me wrong, I do not want to look or...
202 points90 comments4 d ago
- Should I Let Things Come to a Close?
29. Still don't know the stage but things aren't looking great. Double mastectomy, radiation, and months of chemo just confirmed. Potentially will need chemo before and after surgery. I am a child...
160 points108 comments3 d ago
- Free retreats for cancer survivors
Babes I cannot believe this wasn't part of the FAQ or intro posts and nobody told me about this (AI friggen told me about this!!) but if you are a cancer survivor there are many organizations that...
148 points20 comments3 d ago
- “I no longer care if I look good in photos. I just want to look good in MRI, CT scan, etc.”
Has anyone else been seeing this sentiment kicking around memes and videos on social media lately? I get the joke and sentiment behind it and obviously yes ultimately we all want to just be...
126 points19 comments5 d ago
- Six months after finding a positive lymph node shortly after chemo – a hopeful update ❤️
I wanted to share a little update, mainly to give some hope to anyone who might be in the same unbearable situation I was in six months ago. In May, just a few months after finishing six rounds of...
100 points22 comments6 d ago
- The amazing NP who caught my breast cancer super early just died. I went to my follow up and found out she died of a heart attack a few months ago. At 58. I started crying while I was on the gynecologist table.
I had not been to the gynecologist in a long time because I was getting my birth control online during Covid. Last year, exactly one year ago actually, to the day, I went to a new gynecologist and...
99 points20 comments6 d ago
- Cancer clutter
Anyone else just totally overwhelmed by the sheer amount of STUFF IN YOUR HOUSE related to cancer, insurance, chemo, surgery prep, stuff from well wishers (the not-my-Tupperware corner of the...
91 points52 comments6 d ago
- Absolutely bricking it - I found a lump in my armpit
I was first diagnosed early in 2025 +++ grade 3, stage 3, three cancers in right breast. Ki67 over 90. Treated with a cocktail of chemo for 5 rounds, then surgery, didn’t have complete response so...
85 points53 comments2 d ago
- So do we keep on living “normally”?
It feels surreal to have cancer, did the partial mastectomy end of October for my right breast. Turned out the one on the left had cancer too since they did an excision. Currently doing radiation....
84 points43 comments1 d ago