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What r/BreakUps is talking about this week

r/BreakUps has 604,256 members and more than 100 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 26.5 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

604,256members
100+posts in the last 24 hours, newest 7 min ago
26.5comments an hour right now, newest 13 h ago
1,404points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/BreakUps this week

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Top threads this week

  1. I think the hardest part of a breakup is grieving a future that never even happened.

    Something I’ve realised after my breakup is that sometimes you don’t just miss the person. You miss the life you had imagined with them. You miss the little things you never actually got to...

    1,404 points306 comments4 d ago
  2. Ex Reached Out After 6 Months NC

    Ex dumped me 6+ months ago via text, I went no contact immediately after. It broke my heart, but I grieved, hit the gym, and kept moving forward. We both lived in the same apartment building so I...

    212 points151 comments4 d ago
  3. There is hope!

    No contact works in the sense of, it gives the other person time and space to feel their feelings and work through their thoughts and emotions and also for you to heal from the betrayal and...

    189 points154 comments7 d ago
  4. Last night, I (29M) did the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life and ended a 10-year relationship with my gf (26F).

    Ten full years. She was my first and only girlfriend, and the only person I’ve ever been with. We went through everything together, school graduations, family deaths, you name it. Her family was...

    188 points70 comments4 d ago
  5. Getting back together is not as romantic as some people here hope

    I read a lot about people wanting their exes back and I get it, I am one of them. I get that it comes from feelings of loneliness and desire, but I have now been in the situation twice already...

    171 points55 comments6 d ago
  6. Made the stupid mistake of checking her Instagram

    It's been six weeks since the breakup and I haven't been this lonely my entire adult life. I had kind of been neglecting my friendships during the relationship and I've sort of forgotten how to...

    160 points82 comments6 d ago
  7. 1 Month No Contact After 4 Years. Here's What I've Learned About Moving On.

    I'm one month into complete no-contact after a four-year relationship. The first few weeks were genuinely horrible. Constant overthinking, checking social media, replaying old conversations,...

    154 points45 comments3 d ago
  8. I hate him SO much but I love having s*x with him.

    This is a first for me. Usually when I fall out of love with someone, the intimacy was the first to go. I hate my ex so much. He is a terrible, entitled person. The very definition of a taker. But...

    153 points139 comments3 d ago
  9. Only 2 things can result from no contact

    1. They never reach out, genuinely the optimal result. If they never reach out to you, you will never have to make the very difficult decision of letting them back into your life. It gives you the...

    135 points77 comments5 d ago
  10. Two months of no contact, and today I finally had a few minutes of peace.

    Hi everyone, just wanted to give a little update. It's been over two months since I last had contact with my ex, and honestly, I don't think there's been a single day, let alone a single second,...

    133 points39 comments4 d ago

Newest posts

  1. I don't know what to do.
    1 points1 comment7 min ago
  2. my ex and his friends won’t leave me aloneeeeee
    1 points1 comment12 min ago
  3. We broke up because he is trying to chase perfection. I don't even think he realises it.
    1 points1 comment20 min ago
  4. Is this the right place to ask this?
    1 points1 comment20 min ago
  5. F18 and F18. My gf doesn't really wanna be with me anymore
    1 points1 comment24 min ago
  6. Head knows new partner is right, heart misses old partner
    1 points1 comment38 min ago
  7. He ditched me after 2 years of serious relationship. Is it normal?
    1 points1 comment43 min ago
  8. I feel so awful
    1 points1 comment48 min ago
  9. I feel like an asshole for sending my ex angry texts, because of an argument we had before.
    1 points0 comments52 min ago
  10. ex bf asked to meet for coffee
    1 points0 comments54 min ago
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