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What r/beyondthebump is talking about this week

r/beyondthebump has 818,325 members and 46 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 31.8 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

818,325members
46posts in the last 24 hours, newest 7 min ago
31.8comments an hour right now, newest 4 h ago
453points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/beyondthebump this week

baby35months12month12old10birth9husband9toddler8sleep7parents7postpartum6work6else5

Top threads this week

  1. Literally tore from my a**hole to my clitoral hood.. now I’m going to need surgery.

    I’m (29) currently 6 weeks post-partum FTM. I feel like the title says it. I got two second degree tears, one to my butthole, And the other extending to the hood of my clit. The baby was 9 lbs and...

    453 points216 comments5 d ago
  2. Supernatural birth experiences?

    Anyone else have an other worldly experience during their birth? I’ll go first… After pushing for hours, baby started to crown. My husband asked, “do you want to touch her head?” I said no I want...

    239 points126 comments5 d ago
  3. My Labor & Delivery experience was wonderful, but my postpartum hospital stay was a nightmare. Am I wrong to file a formal grievance?

    At the top I want to say - I should have researched better on breastfeeding. It’s just so hard to know what it’ll be like until you’re there. I also found out I likely have IGT and just don’t...

    146 points183 comments5 d ago
  4. WATCH BAKE OFF!

    I am 6 days PP and feeling really good! However, I’m def experiencing some nighttime anxiety/ scaries and wanted to find a show to watch that would be fun, happy, and absolutely not contribute to...

    145 points42 comments5 d ago
  5. Anyone else’s husband on their phone a lot when they are supposed to be spending time with their kids?

    I know the temptation is strong especially when the child is a baby and we can’t all be perfectly screen free ALL the time but when it happens very frequently, it’s annoying.

    104 points42 comments3 d ago
  6. My mom secretly posted my baby to facebook

    I don’t post my child on social media. I didn’t post myself pregnant on social media. I ended up getting rid of all social media while I was pregnant. I was extremely clear to all family and...

    102 points41 comments6 d ago
  7. Baby #2: "Just wait" and "You'll want another one"

    I'll start this by saying that I love my 8 week old. I love being her mom. I love her face, her sounds, her smile, every diaper change, and the entire journey we get to have together. BUT I'm so...

    83 points58 comments4 d ago
  8. My second baby has healed me

    Just wanted to share a glimmer of hope for anyone struggling postpartum. My first baby was born seven years ago, and postpartum was such a massive struggle for me. I had terrible anxiety. Just the...

    77 points8 comments3 d ago
  9. Every baby really is different

    I’m sitting and eating my hot lunch after putting my 10 week old down in her bassinet drowsy but awake. She made absolutely no fuss and put herself to sleep. My mind is honestly blown because my...

    74 points17 comments4 d ago
  10. I think my body has started treating my toddler's screaming like an actual threat

    I’ve been a SAHM for a little over a year now and I genuinely feel like my nervous system is completely FRIED. For the past few months, I’ve been dealing with physical symptoms I’ve never really...

    70 points24 comments3 d ago

Newest posts

  1. Struggling at 14 months
    1 points0 comments7 min ago
  2. Lost airpods right bud at home, worried sick
    1 points0 comments13 min ago
  3. Sick again in the span of a week. Help me.
    1 points0 comments32 min ago
  4. I’m terrified for my husband to go back to work
    1 points0 comments1 h ago
  5. I think I have PPD
    1 points0 comments3 h ago
  6. Baby only rolls to one side?
    1 points0 comments4 h ago
  7. Give me ALL the details about traveling while still nursing
    1 points0 comments4 h ago
  8. 11 mg per DAY of iron for an infant?!?!?
    1 points0 comments4 h ago
  9. When does the hair loss start?
    1 points0 comments4 h ago
  10. Did you meal prep for PP? If yes, what meals worked out the best once reheated?
    1 points0 comments5 h ago
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