- Literally tore from my a**hole to my clitoral hood.. now I’m going to need surgery.
I’m (29) currently 6 weeks post-partum FTM. I feel like the title says it. I got two second degree tears, one to my butthole, And the other extending to the hood of my clit. The baby was 9 lbs and...
453 points216 comments5 d ago
- Supernatural birth experiences?
Anyone else have an other worldly experience during their birth? I’ll go first… After pushing for hours, baby started to crown. My husband asked, “do you want to touch her head?” I said no I want...
239 points126 comments5 d ago
- My Labor & Delivery experience was wonderful, but my postpartum hospital stay was a nightmare. Am I wrong to file a formal grievance?
At the top I want to say - I should have researched better on breastfeeding. It’s just so hard to know what it’ll be like until you’re there. I also found out I likely have IGT and just don’t...
146 points183 comments5 d ago
- WATCH BAKE OFF!
I am 6 days PP and feeling really good! However, I’m def experiencing some nighttime anxiety/ scaries and wanted to find a show to watch that would be fun, happy, and absolutely not contribute to...
145 points42 comments5 d ago
- Anyone else’s husband on their phone a lot when they are supposed to be spending time with their kids?
I know the temptation is strong especially when the child is a baby and we can’t all be perfectly screen free ALL the time but when it happens very frequently, it’s annoying.
104 points42 comments3 d ago
- My mom secretly posted my baby to facebook
I don’t post my child on social media. I didn’t post myself pregnant on social media. I ended up getting rid of all social media while I was pregnant. I was extremely clear to all family and...
102 points41 comments6 d ago
- Baby #2: "Just wait" and "You'll want another one"
I'll start this by saying that I love my 8 week old. I love being her mom. I love her face, her sounds, her smile, every diaper change, and the entire journey we get to have together. BUT I'm so...
83 points58 comments4 d ago
- My second baby has healed me
Just wanted to share a glimmer of hope for anyone struggling postpartum. My first baby was born seven years ago, and postpartum was such a massive struggle for me. I had terrible anxiety. Just the...
77 points8 comments3 d ago
- Every baby really is different
I’m sitting and eating my hot lunch after putting my 10 week old down in her bassinet drowsy but awake. She made absolutely no fuss and put herself to sleep. My mind is honestly blown because my...
74 points17 comments4 d ago
- I think my body has started treating my toddler's screaming like an actual threat
I’ve been a SAHM for a little over a year now and I genuinely feel like my nervous system is completely FRIED. For the past few months, I’ve been dealing with physical symptoms I’ve never really...
70 points24 comments3 d ago