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What r/BDSMpersonals is talking about this week

r/BDSMpersonals has 561,804 members and 96 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 4.5 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

561,804members
96posts in the last 24 hours, newest 15 min ago
4.5comments an hour right now, newest 19 h ago
24points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/BDSMpersonals this week

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Top threads this week

  1. 23 [F4M] #usa — Petite girl, wanting a older man for a taboo dynamic

    my body description: is skinny, mediun long hair, I weigh under 100 lbs, and I'm slightly short, I like wearing a bra that binds my tits to make them smaller looking in clothes cause it helps me...

    24 points1 comment6 d ago
  2. 24 [F4M] #uk — 24F Hijabi Sub London – Seeking Long-Term Dominant
    18 points1 comment4 d ago
  3. 37 [F4M] #chicago #il #usa — Creative NW Burbs Subby Gal looking to make memories in and out of the bedroom
    15 points1 comment4 d ago
  4. 35 [F4M] #pa #usa — 35F - Mental dominance craving brat looking for a Daddy dom
    14 points1 comment3 d ago
  5. 28 [F4M] #alabama #al #usa — Looking to be owned
    11 points1 comment7 d ago
  6. 22 [F4A] #Online Test Subject looking for Sadistic Dom by Chew_Toys in United States —…
    10 points1 comment3 d ago
  7. 45 [F4M] #il #usa — Online or N IL/S WI. Kinky, collaborative, and creative. Looking for someone to do terrible things with me.
    10 points1 comment7 d ago
  8. 28 [F4M] #online — Seeking a quiet, steady Dom who likes to guide

    I’m 29F, Asian, tall and fit. I have a good career and most people who know me would describe me as put-together and a bit innocent on the outside, but that’s only half the story. There’s a much...

    10 points1 comment7 d ago
  9. 28 [F4M] #newjersey #nj #usa — Looking for a Man Who Knows How to Lead | 28F
    9 points1 comment3 d ago
  10. 42 [M4F] #UK | #Online - Do you like the idea of being a sadistic man’s plaything?…
    9 points1 comment4 d ago

Newest posts

  1. 35 [M4F] #houston #tx #usa — 35 yo Dom male looking for an eager to learn sub
    1 points0 comments15 min ago
  2. 46/40 [MF4F] #augusta #ga #usa — Looks Innocent From the Outside
    1 points1 comment1 h ago
  3. 23 [M4F] #jacksonville #fl #usa — Looking 4 some fun
    1 points0 comments2 h ago
  4. 25 [M4F] #sweden — Im your boytoy
    1 points1 comment2 h ago
  5. 30 [F4A] #Portland #PDX Looking for an Owner
    1 points1 comment2 h ago
  6. 23 [M4A] #oregon #or #usa — Southern OR
    1 points1 comment2 h ago
  7. 24 [M4F] #Singapore looking for a friend that is also a good girl
    1 points1 comment3 h ago
  8. 27 [M4F] #eastbourne #uk —Owner looking for a new pet for a long term, kinky relationship
    1 points1 comment3 h ago
  9. 28 [F4M] #austin #tx #usa — ISO Pleasure Dom
    1 points1 comment4 h ago
  10. 32 [M4F] #kalamazoo #mi #usa — Looking for an abusive femdom
    1 points1 comment5 h ago
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