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What r/AskWomenOver30 is talking about this week

r/AskWomenOver30 has 459,499 members and 28 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 26.6 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

459,499members
28posts in the last 24 hours, newest 3 min ago
26.6comments an hour right now, newest 4 min ago
1,049points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/AskWomenOver30 this week

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Top threads this week

  1. A doctor I work with said the most hurtful thing anyone’s ever said because he didn’t know I was listening,what do I do now?

    So long story short, I had a miscarriage recently. It was a pregnancy that was unplanned and I never necessarily wanted to be a mother, but I was getting excited nonetheless. Because I work in...

    1,049 points94 comments2 d ago
  2. Does anyone else feel extreme rage when people ask questions in meetings that have already ran late that could be answered with an email?

    Nothing makes me rage like someone asking a question that has NOTHING to do with anyone else in the meeting and could easily be a meeting. I’ve been in a meeting for 1.5 hours and people keep...

    285 points69 comments4 d ago
  3. Anyone struggling with lack of a close friendship?

    36 F, at a weird stage of life where I feel a lot of my friends feel like fringe friends - I don’t think they’re bad and appreciate having social connections but have found myself becoming...

    247 points38 comments6 d ago
  4. American ladies, how'd your local races go?

    We're all celebrating the blue wave, how are things at local levels where you live? I'm celebrating that NY State has a super majority in house and Senate.

    231 points312 comments5 d ago
  5. Does anyone else here have friends that show zero curiosity about your life?

    Anytime my college best friend and I spend time together she's constantly talking about herself, her job, her family. She shows no curiosity about anything going on in my life, and it's started to...

    202 points98 comments6 d ago
  6. Did your desire for marriage vanish as you got older and more established in life?

    TLDR; After wanting to be married more than anything my entire life, failed relationship after failed relationship, and getting myself settled in life independently, I no longer view marriage as...

    182 points123 comments4 d ago
  7. Last summer my friend almost died from cancer. She’s doing better now, but friends have cut her off. Could I confront them?

    Hi. So last Summer, my friend almost died due to complications with the chemo she was on. She was in a medically induced coma for weeks, and we really didn’t know if she’d make it. But she pulled...

    161 points98 comments5 d ago
  8. My chiropractor used his hips and groin to “help” manipulate my body, and I froze

    I consider myself a very upfront person. Don’t take crap from anyone. But, I have had too many instances of being made very “uncomfortable” when lying on a massage table. It’s either inappropriate...

    134 points142 comments4 d ago
  9. What would you do if a paramedic wore meta glasses?

    A few days ago I had a panic attack, which has never happened to me before. I asked a random lady to help me and she called an ambulance. When the paramedic was putting me into the ambulance on...

    122 points55 comments12 h ago
  10. Who else just ended up going back to their childhood hobbies?

    As a kid I used to be quite a nerd. Pokemon, HP, manga, anime, Twilight, The Sims. I had all the phases. Then I grew up. People made fun of me because I read manga and it wasn’t that cool anymore...

    113 points27 comments2 d ago

Newest posts

  1. Could you look past voice if you really liked someone?
    2 points0 comments3 min ago
  2. Would you expect your man to let you know he's hanging out with a female friend, even when platonically?
    0 points23 comments23 min ago
  3. How do you navigate workplace power imbalances without falling into a victim mentality?
    5 points5 comments3 h ago
  4. Those dreaded closure paragraphs to exes
    12 points47 comments5 h ago
  5. At what point can I expect my married sister with kids to make an effort?
    29 points38 comments8 h ago
  6. Would you be offended if a man jokingly invites you to his hotel room before you've even had a date?
    48 points86 comments8 h ago
  7. Does anyone else hate the feeling of being in a relationship, despite loving the person they’re with?
    104 points48 comments10 h ago
  8. What is life like for an early 30s divorcé?
    11 points15 comments10 h ago
  9. Does anyone else feel a constant emptiness when they’re not in a relationship, despite having a full life?
    69 points57 comments11 h ago
  10. What would you do if a paramedic wore meta glasses?
    122 points55 comments12 h ago
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