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What r/asktransgender is talking about this week

r/asktransgender has 434,301 members and more than 100 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 34.3 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

434,301members
100+posts in the last 24 hours, newest 8 min ago
34.3comments an hour right now, newest 5 min ago
547points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/asktransgender this week

woman15hrt15transition11advice10i'm8cis7feel7dysphoria6girl6else6offensive5friend5

Top threads this week

  1. Mom Voted Against Me

    My mother, despite my best attempts through the years to educate her, has been a conservative for a while. I came out to her a while back, and she was surprisingly supportive. I find out today...

    547 points81 comments5 d ago
  2. Boss got me a women's uniform to wear to work.

    Any of you other dudes have a good way to respond to this? My first thoughts were: a) ignore it and if he ever brings it up, say, well that's a women's uniform so I didn't think it was mine; or...

    345 points13 comments4 d ago
  3. "Size queen" after vaginoplasty?

    I had my vaginoplasty 2 years ago. All has healed perfectly and I can even squirt which I never expected. I've worked through all dilator sizes which were in the manual of my surgeon and using one...

    301 points21 comments3 d ago
  4. That counts as transphobia, right?

    Yesterday, I was at a very prominent and well-known LGBTQ+ organization in my city. They had organized a board game night, and later in the evening, we started playing an adult version of Taboo....

    288 points53 comments4 d ago
  5. If cis men shouldn't vote on women's rights i.e abortion, why should cis people be able to vote on trans issues

    sigh question title

    284 points56 comments4 d ago
  6. how do i approach my best friends “brother” who is VERY obviously egg

    I am a trans girl and my best friends “brother” is the most textbook example of a depressed egg, he spends like all his time on the computer pretending to be a girl and is knowledgeable about a...

    229 points16 comments2 d ago
  7. Why does it feel so awkward to ask out a trans woman?

    As a straight guy I've recently been talking to a trans woman I work with. For a few weeks she's been giving me subtle hints that she likes me. Every so often when we chat and I make her laugh she...

    218 points53 comments2 d ago
  8. Is this joke offensive?

    Sorry if this is not the right place to ask, I still don't fully understand how to use reddit. But my cat recently got Perineal Urethrostomy (PU) surgery. The surgery basically makes his urethra...

    183 points70 comments1 d ago
  9. is it okay to be attracted to my friend after they've transitioned?

    we use to be close before she (M2F) transitioned, but we drifted apart for no particular reason and haven't spoken in like 2-3 years. i recently saw her again and was just awe-struck by how pretty...

    144 points30 comments11 h ago
  10. Cis guy fantasizing about life as a woman since seeing a trans artist live. Is this normal?

    Hey what's up Reddit, another cis man here to add to the hundreds 'I'm cis but ...' posts; how do I know there's so many? I read most of them. Last monday one of my favorite artists performed live...

    144 points79 comments14 h ago

Newest posts

  1. How much weight should I lose before starting E? MtF
    1 points1 comment8 min ago
  2. Being overweight as a trans woman
    3 points2 comments44 min ago
  3. Thoughts on microdosing estradiol?
    1 points3 comments48 min ago
  4. I realized I was trans just 2 months ago. Now I'm socially transitioning and about to start HRT, and I'm terrified of how fast everything is happening. Anyone else?
    4 points1 comment50 min ago
  5. So I’ve just recently realized I may be trans 35.m?
    1 points0 comments57 min ago
  6. Advice needed.
    1 points0 comments1 h ago
  7. I'm struggling with oncoming twinkdeath, HRT isn't an option
    4 points10 comments1 h ago
  8. Am I not trans if I can’t imagine and older me as my preferred gender?
    1 points5 comments2 h ago
  9. (TM) how the heck do I dress business casual?
    2 points4 comments2 h ago
  10. need help boymoding for a job interview
    1 points0 comments2 h ago
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