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What r/asexuality is talking about this week

r/asexuality has 278,584 members and 35 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 7.6 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

278,584members
35posts in the last 24 hours, newest 21 min ago
7.6comments an hour right now, newest 9 min ago
4,223points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/asexuality this week

ace33i'm11allo10feel9hate9romantic8averse8repulsed7even6asexuals6relationships6don't6

Top threads this week

  1. this is how I found out cupcake is Asexual

    She’s actually so real

    4,223 points144 comments7 d ago
  2. I hope this is allowed because it is political

    😹

    2,559 points65 comments7 d ago
  3. My friend crocheted me a hat with yarn the colors of the ace flag
    1,204 points18 comments3 d ago
  4. Being asexual as a black woman

    Hi everyone, I'm a 29-year-old woman and I'm new here. It’s generic and a bit hard for me to open up about this, but I feel like I need to because keeping it to myself has become such a heavy...

    917 points58 comments3 d ago
  5. i was digging on this subreddit and found this

    i thought it was cool kinda helps understand what sexual attraction is but “everything they do makes you think of sex” LIKE WTF SORRY????? that’s an actual thing??? 😭

    867 points266 comments4 d ago
  6. Being asexual as a very tall man with an attractive face has messed up my life

    Hello sub, Only recently I've come to the conclusion that I'm almost certainly asexual and probably aro. Other than that, I'm stereotypically autistic and have severe social anxiety as well as low...

    566 points100 comments7 d ago
  7. Gynaecologist refused transvaginal ultrasound because I’m a virgin

    I live in a pretty conservative country, but after reading some other posts apparently it’s pretty common in many countries for gynaecologists to outright refuse to do certain medical procedures...

    530 points69 comments4 d ago
  8. My friend botched the term so badly I couldn't even think of correcting him 😭
    465 points29 comments22 h ago
  9. Ace people deserve monogamy and loyalty without "compromise"

    I am talking about specificly Sex repulsed people. Because thats is my situation. I literally cant find a partner because I am ace. I hate it. And so many people just take asexuality as "Oh a...

    425 points22 comments3 d ago
  10. How did you discover that you were asexual? 🤝

    Hi, everyone! I’m Charlotte, and I discovered that I’m asexual when I was around 14 or 15. Since then, I’ve been learning more about myself, and honestly, I really enjoy knowing who I am and...

    391 points73 comments14 h ago

Newest posts

  1. Young aces, do you worry about the future of romantic relationships?
    1 points1 comment21 min ago
  2. Does this mean im asexual?
    1 points6 comments38 min ago
  3. Thank God I came out
    5 points4 comments56 min ago
  4. I hate how some people talk about Sex-Averse/Repulsed Asexuals
    33 points6 comments2 h ago
  5. I hate being an asexual
    10 points2 comments4 h ago
  6. Not finding people on apps attractive
    11 points15 comments4 h ago
  7. Why do I keep getting labeled aroace
    3 points11 comments5 h ago
  8. Endlessly confused by wanting something I don’t want
    2 points1 comment6 h ago
  9. Thinking of opening up my relationship since I’m not attracted to him physically
    1 points5 comments7 h ago
  10. The impact of being ace
    3 points1 comment8 h ago
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