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What r/AlAnon is talking about this week

r/AlAnon has 112,654 members and 32 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 5.5 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

112,654members
32posts in the last 24 hours, newest 35 min ago
5.5comments an hour right now, newest 19 h ago
181points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/AlAnon this week

advice18sober9drinking9husband6finally6boyfriend6alcoholism6partner6mom6rehab6old6alcohol5

Top threads this week

  1. Fuck alcohol.

    :-(

    181 points47 comments5 d ago
  2. He's almost at death's door

    My brother managed to hide his addiction from me for a decade before it got so bad he stopped bothering to hide it anymore. 2 weeks ago he was hospitalized and they said he's on the cusp of stage...

    97 points46 comments5 d ago
  3. The consequences have come

    15 years together, 2 amazing children, a great dog, beautiful home, 10 years (probably more) of alcoholism and it's done. My attorney let me know the documents have been sent in, the ball is...

    81 points19 comments3 d ago
  4. I’m sick of recovery and this new addiction to this new group of people my husband has become enamored with.

    The late night texts sweet dreams xoxo with a blowing kiss emoji at 9:30 pm on a Sunday night ( Father’sDay). People showing up 5 hours away to a home I rented for family vacation. Locked phone,...

    78 points54 comments5 d ago
  5. Glad I stayed

    Not sure who needs to read this, but I felt called to share that am glad I stayed with my husband. Despite everything. He is sober and knows I would not be around him if he relapsed, but I was so...

    67 points33 comments3 d ago
  6. family finally agreed to put my Q into hospice

    hi guys thanks for reading, this is hard to fit into a reddit post but i’m gonna do my best. my (f21) mom (f47) has been slowly passing away the last 2 years, after 7 years of health issues. she...

    65 points18 comments7 d ago
  7. Heartbroken

    Well. I realized my husband's been lying to me about his sobriety for a year when he asked me if we were going to light candles and sing happy birthday to our 5 year old...20 minutes after we did...

    59 points17 comments2 d ago
  8. The follow through

    I caught him today. Throwing away empty beer containers from him truck at the gas station. I’ve been telling myself that if it happens again, if he’s been lying to my face again, I have to end our...

    38 points38 comments6 d ago
  9. I feel robbed of the life I was supposed to have

    I left my Q three months ago. In the months following, I accidentally found out that he’s spiraling deeper into his vices, and does not seem to be doing well. I’m trying very hard to detach, but I...

    36 points7 comments6 d ago
  10. Reasonable request or a$$hole?

    Wife and I are having a knock down drag out war on this one and I have to know if I’m insane. Wife is one year sober. Wife goes to AA many days per week, often on weekends. She gets home at 9:20...

    34 points101 comments6 d ago

Newest posts

  1. He claims he's done 90 in 90...found an open beer can in his car yesterday.
    1 points1 comment35 min ago
  2. Am I being unreasonable about social binging?
    1 points1 comment1 h ago
  3. Remind me ?
    1 points1 comment3 h ago
  4. Am I crazy or justified? Husband can’t control his drinking and my concern is somehow my own fault?
    1 points1 comment6 h ago
  5. How to navigate a trauma bond with someone with alcoholism
    1 points1 comment6 h ago
  6. 1 year, 2 months, 4 days… but still angry
    1 points1 comment10 h ago
  7. Just found out my best friend of 15 years is an alcoholic
    1 points1 comment11 h ago
  8. I hate my dad
    1 points1 comment11 h ago
  9. I want to know how YOU are doing today, not your Q, you.
    1 points1 comment13 h ago
  10. It hurts to set a boundary
    1 points1 comment14 h ago
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