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What r/Affairs is talking about this week

r/Affairs has 206,542 members and more than 100 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 5.5 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

206,542members
100+posts in the last 24 hours, newest 5 min ago
5.5comments an hour right now, newest 4 h ago
43points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/Affairs this week

m4f141looking37f4m35seeking29married14nyc12connection12woman11long10term10let10dad9

Top threads this week

  1. 43 [F4A] #maryland restless and feeling under appreciated

    Happy Monday everyone! I’m not very good at this introduce myself stuff, but here goes. About me: White, average weight 5’8 female in a dead bedroom & emotionally dead marriage. I love him because...

    43 points16 comments2 d ago
  2. 47 [F4M] #NYC. Life is good, but there's too little sex in the city ;)

    I'm 47, married, polished, pretty, and very easy on the eyes. Life is good. Career, city, plenty going on. But there's far too little sex in the city, and… that's where you come in. I like smart....

    38 points14 comments4 d ago
  3. 44 [F4M] #NYC #CT #NJ #Westchester just don’t be a dick…

    Or send me photos of your dick. A little respect goes a long way with this. Please be experienced with this and know what you’re looking for. As for me, I’m married (duh) and looking for someone...

    30 points17 comments6 d ago
  4. 40 [F4M] #VA #NC also works. New to 40. Maybe having a mid life crisis? I'm not your average MILF next door.

    Trying this again. Maybe for the last time 🤔 I'm married, soccer mom, dance mom, work a flexible job, love watching football. I have too many hobbies. I have done ​this once before and I just...

    25 points21 comments2 d ago
  5. 46 [F4M] #California

    Chemistry is tough to describe and even tougher to find and being needed isn't the same as being chosen. I'm a married female executive looking for the right AP. Someone who is intelligent and...

    25 points15 comments6 d ago
  6. 28 [F4M] #NYC - Maybe We're Both Looking for the Same Something

    I’m not completely fulfilled in my marriage, but I’m not looking to change anyone’s situation, yours or mine. I’m simply hoping to find some excitement, connection, and fun. I’d prefer to start by...

    24 points9 comments3 d ago
  7. 36 [F4M] #philly long term love affair

    Before you make a comment about what time it is, I Accidentally drank coffee very late in the day and now I can’t sleep. I’m a married mom looking for a long term romantic entanglement in the...

    18 points8 comments3 d ago
  8. 36 [F4M] #WI Can we rapid-fire get to know each other all weekend and then maybe don’t let it fizzle in a day?

    Hi! Let’s get this out of the way. I hate the term bbw. I don’t identify as that lol. I’m a thicker curvy girl, 5’5, blonde short hair, blue eyes. You’re never going to find another heart like...

    18 points10 comments4 d ago
  9. 30 [F4M] #London - Training Season's over?

    Hi there! Hope you're having a good day. I thought I'd try posting again since I've had a mixed response last time. I am going to be technical and honest so get ready! Q. What I'm looking for? A....

    17 points9 comments4 d ago
  10. 45 [F4A] #BayArea #CA Married and needing serious stress relief

    Hello all!! I’m a married, curvy Latina looking for a passionate love affair (or a hot fuck fest) with someone that has the time to go for hours and loves to talk and cuddle. I’m looking for...

    15 points4 comments2 d ago

Newest posts

  1. 46 [M4F] #Boston seeking long term AP
    1 points1 comment5 min ago
  2. 39 [m4f] #NY #Manhattan area/tristate - I bring great energy and the much more would love to connect with a woman who can match it
    1 points1 comment14 min ago
  3. 37 [M4F] #Southeastern Connecticut- Come sneak away with me this holiday season?
    1 points1 comment16 min ago
  4. [M4F] #WA #PNW
    1 points1 comment23 min ago
  5. 36 [M4F] #Tampa - Seeking Something Real/Discrete
    1 points1 comment25 min ago
  6. 29 [M4F] #Brooklyn - I'll let you know you're appreciated
    1 points1 comment34 min ago
  7. 38 [M4F] #Denver - Married man seeking a real, discreet connection that feels electric and safe
    1 points1 comment38 min ago
  8. 29 [M4F] #Tennessee Somewhere between “just chatting” and “oh no, I really like her”
    1 points1 comment45 min ago
  9. 38 [M4F] #Oklahoma Seeking Discreet Partner in Crime in North OKC/Edmond area
    1 points1 comment45 min ago
  10. 49 [M4F] #Ottawa #Ontario – Discreet professional with a flexible weekday schedule, looking for something slow and real
    1 points0 comments49 min ago
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