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What r/Advice is talking about this week

r/Advice has 3,223,550 members and more than 100 posts in the last 24 hours, with about 471.8 comments an hour right now. From the Redlisten index, refreshed daily.

3,223,550members
100+posts in the last 24 hours, newest just now
471.8comments an hour right now, newest just now
8,212points on the top thread this week

Words coming up in r/Advice this week

mom16friend14feel10boyfriend9dad8relationship8sex7without6parents6i'm6family6tell6

Top threads this week

  1. The teen I tutor is borderline illiterate. how do I bring this up to her parent?

    Hi! I need some advice on how to approach an awkward conversation without offending anyone involved. I tutor a 14-year-old girl in science and social studies. During my time tutoring her, I’ve...

    8,212 points1,113 comments6 d ago
  2. I (26F) accidentally found out my roommate’s "secret fund" is actually saving up to buy me out of our apartment lease, and now things are weird. How do I handle this without blowing up our friendship?

    Hey everyone, throwaway here. My roommate Maya (23F) left her laptop open in the kitchen yesterday with a spreadsheet up. I wasn’t trying to snoop, but a tab called "Apartment Solo / Buyout Fund"...

    1,722 points314 comments6 d ago
  3. Boyfriend cancelling plans with me and my parents for GTA 6

    I feel kind of stupid writing this tbh… but here we go. My boyfriend is super keen for GTA 6, no issues there - we both love games etc. it comes out on a Wednesday for us, and he doesn’t work from...

    1,129 points852 comments3 d ago
  4. My parents have been doing something to me and I want to know what it is.

    17F. PLEASE help me. My parents do this thing and it tortures me mentally and honestly I just want to know what it’s called, and if there’s any way out of it. It’s a very hard concept to explain,...

    683 points448 comments7 d ago
  5. Can’t finish with gf during sex

    I (24M) can’t finish with my (F23) whenever we have sex I like what she does oral, hand stuff, different positions but I just can finish and eventually we stop. I worry it’s been putting a strain...

    626 points859 comments5 d ago
  6. I lied to everyone about my college degree, now i'm stuck

    I (25f) need to come clean about my lack of degree to my husband (26m) I lied to everyone and told them that I graduated with my bachelors degree in business administration two years ago. But the...

    620 points408 comments2 d ago
  7. I (35F) cannot stop thinking about what my best friend's (35M) girlfriend (35F) said about him, and it's making me sick. Where do I go from here?

    I don't know who to say this too. I can't talk about it to anyone I know, because they all know Josh. And I just feel so lost holding this conversation inside right now. I have been friends with...

    587 points247 comments3 d ago
  8. My fiance left me after my surgery.

    im 30F and my fiance is 31M we've been together almost 5 years and got engaged last december. i always thought we'd spend our lives together. a few months ago my left leg started hurting badly. i...

    529 points149 comments1 d ago
  9. NSFW I orgasm really easy and I'm embarassed about it...

    I'm 20f, have been dating for over 2 years now and have been intimate for a year and a half, when we are getting intimate i usually orgasm within 2 minutes, sometimes less (i sometimes cum when we...

    529 points240 comments6 d ago
  10. My family is furious I cut off my mom after she called my twin stepdaughters (5F) my Wife's Baggage and insulted my wife's ex husband?

    I've been trying to figure out how to explain this entire situation for days and I've decided I might as well put it here. I'm Seth (M34) and I've been married to my wife Sadie (F30) for almost a...

    448 points208 comments6 d ago

Newest posts

  1. How can I stop being scared of dating?
    1 points0 commentsjust now
  2. Having trouble even penetrating (first time)
    1 points0 comments2 min ago
  3. 23 year old moved to new town
    1 points1 comment2 min ago
  4. Feeling lost
    1 points0 comments2 min ago
  5. 23 year old moved to new town
    1 points0 comments2 min ago
  6. My gf lied to me
    1 points1 comment4 min ago
  7. Just broke up with my suicidal girlfriend, don't know if i made the right choice
    1 points1 comment4 min ago
  8. I think my memory problems are ruining my friendship, how do I fix it?
    1 points1 comment8 min ago
  9. Weed pen to Ireland?
    1 points1 comment8 min ago
  10. Friend advice needed: acquaintance to friend. & how do I befriend ppl after awkward interactions with them?
    1 points1 comment8 min ago
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