- The child my sister put up for adoption keeps reaching out, what helpful information can I give him (medical/family wise)?
The child my sister put up for adoption (20M) has reached out to me several times, both individually and now through my (estranged) parents who I believe he found through social media. In the...
154 points176 comments4 d ago
- My adopted dad had a heart attack and I am crumbling
I was adopted sense birth, my adopted parents did everything right by me. My adopted father just had a heart attack and I am so scared. He’s my daddy and I love him. I don’t do well with loss. I...
33 points13 comments5 d ago
- What do you do when you discover that the parent you thought abandoned you might have actually wanted you?
I’m 21F, and I’ve recently started communicating with my biological father again. He reached out to contact me. I haven’t seen him since I was a little girl. I was adopted by my stepfather, and...
24 points6 comments2 d ago
- Need Gentle Advice
I gave up a baby many years ago. I am now searching for the baby. The person (hired) who is helping me asked that I write a letter to the baby (now an adult) so she could potentially give it to...
23 points31 comments6 d ago
- Adopted
To those adopted as an infant, how did you feel about your family as you got older/became an adult? Is it just me that has a disconnect or is upset/frustrated by the life they were given even tho...
20 points41 comments5 d ago
- 😢😭 missing him.
I'm having a rough morning. Missing my son. Sometimes I imagine what's his favorite thing right now? What kind of music does he like. Especially if he thinks about me. I pray his heart is full...
17 points7 comments3 d ago
- World Adoption day.
Tomorrow is world adoption day. What the one thing youd want to share with this community? ☺️
16 points65 comments16 h ago
- Adoptee
I'm just so glad this platform exists. I'm 57yo and I'm really messed up right now. I'm not ready to share but I have severe PTSD on top of my adoptee issues. Feeling lost and disconnected and...
15 points5 comments6 d ago
- Adoptive fam idealizing my birth mom
I don’t know how to explain this, it’s a really weird situation. I’m in my 30s and reconnected at 17 and I often straight up loathe my birth mom. Not for giving me up because I would never want to...
13 points6 comments3 d ago
- I found out I was adopted at 40
I found out I was adopted at 40. Six days later, I have a little sister, three nephews, and a completely different understanding of my life. I'm 40 years old, and less than a week ago, I...
13 points9 comments4 d ago