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But, by pure chance, I was passing through my ex’s city for a personal hobby, got stuck at an intersection I...", "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/BPDlovedones/comments/1xsdlxd/ran_into_her_almost_2_years_later/" }, { "title": "The two people of BPD", "score": 80, "comments": 60, "created_utc": 1793817782.669, "snippet": "This is mostly just an observation... My person with BPD is one person 6 days a week. Somebody I absolutely love and is fun to be around. And the other day of the week for about 30 minutes to 2...", "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/BPDlovedones/comments/1xnw8ak/the_two_people_of_bpd/" }, { "title": "I'm starting to think she was lying about being abused", "score": 78, "comments": 49, "created_utc": 1793829878.357, "snippet": "I know BPD is caused by childhood abuse. But some of the stories she told me doesn't make sense. 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